Not a pregnancy thing but:
how can I bring the spark back in my relationship? I love this man so so much and i don't know what I'd do if I lost him but our spark is gone we aren't like we used to be and I want that back. I can't lose him, he's everything to me, I've never loved anyone like I love him.
Try to get him to talk about what's making him feel distant, but don't pressure. Some men don't even realize and can't put it into words. But if he doesn't know you're unhappy, he can't work on it. There are numerous reasons for why men pull away during pregnancy. Most of which resolve themselves after the birth but if you guys can figure it out now, it will make you stronger as a couple and will make the rest of the pregnancy more enjoyable for you both.
just during the pregnancy we've been drifting apart @mommabird I'm just scared of losing him 😢
Is it just since the pregnancy or did it start before? Because some men get distant during pregnancy and it goes away after.
Gain confidence in yourself! It will probably change how you two interact.