So I found this in my bf's facebook messages and I see this.. I'm not even sure what to say or do. We have a child on…

I completely agree with @their.bomb.ass.mom

Also, social media shouldn't be the issue. If your significant other can't handle having a Facebook or any other social media account, something is up. Yeah, there's drama on it, but if he's going out of his way to message females, I'd have a talk with him about it. He might as well not even have a phone or whatever if he can't not message females, especially talking like that with them.

I mean, if my man every told another female, while we were together "I thought you'd be the one I'd marry" I'd lose my shit. Just being honest. It'd be a little different if they were having a regular conversation, or she was hitting on him and he was shutting it down. But that statement is strong.

I trust my boyfriend completely so I don't go through his messages looking for things but if I found this he'd lose his dick. Unless it's the female talking to him and him basically being rude and basically telling her to eff off 😂 but then again I would still bring it up and ask why he didn't tell me because he tells me everything. I do go on his fb because he's in groups that I'm not so I look through the yard sales and stuff that's posted in the groups he's in, and I saw he had notifications (which sometimes I comment on the yard sale stuff so it could have been for me) and accidentally hit messages...and saw he had a recent conversation with his mom and and aunt (which usually he tells me in normal conversation that he's talked to them about something so I was extremely curious) and found out he wants to get me a ring..... Yea looking through messages can find you stuff you don't wanna know.. But urgh if I saw stuff like this he'd be bleeding out. and the fact that every pregnant woman is saying the same thing shows what hormones can do lol. But seriously this is something you need to talk to him about and make a decision and not worry about it for the baby's sake

agreed with ^^^^ @emanuel

social media always attracts issues with relationships . I would talk it through and make a page together or delete it . I use to love it but my bf and I got off it and there are no more issues pertaining to guys and girls . we even changed our numbers . it's just a suggestion ♡

oh girl I'm so sorry but oh hell no he'd be losing his dam fingers an his dam life that isn't OK but good luck think of u an the baby

I would be straight up with him. Unacceptable. :( <3

Regardless of what 'excuses he's making' you do NOT say that to another female while in a relationship. 🔪🔪🔪 was there anything else on there? Oh girl, I couldn't hold it in 😤

Oh wow smh I'm sorry 😞 but like @yeremiiahs_mommy is saying don't stress about it. Make a decision of how you're going to handle it, and relax. I know that's hard considering the situation but try to for baby

hah yeah it's another girl and now we're in a huge fight and i haven't mentioned this @vinnysmommal and yeah who knows and hes the one who messages them @xxkawaiinekochanxx

just ask him about it. you're not doing yourself any good by worrying.. think about your baby.

It might be that she's pursuing him, he doesn't seem interested in her excuses so far

Oh heeeeeellll no

Is that another female?'