I'm not made to be a mom. It's so hard doing this alone. My child's father just sleeps and goes out. I'm soooo tired and…

wake him up u need help 2 u didn't make that baby on ur own

just know it isn't forever, I have been taking care of my daughter mostly to and its gotten easier but I keep telling myself its not forever it gets better, fake five mins if you need to, to calm down if your frustrated even if the baby is crying its OK

I agree with @lil_bigmama

He won't wake up and when I wake him up, hes pissed at me and being hateful. I need help. I have no friends or family here. I'm about to breakdown. @lil_bigmama @amorasmom

then maybe you should take ah break from him and go back with your family

I have a snoring jackass next to me and a daughter that won't stop crying. I'm going to lose it. I haven't gotten an ounce of sleep. I'm honestly dead tired. @imbecca143

I need to but I'm trying to wait until my 6 weeks are up and she get her shots January 5th. @amorasmom

yes that's understandable well after that just go where u can get help

@emteebee, sry ur going through a rough time! Wish I was closer to help you out. Is she gassy?? Try gas drops

I agree with @imbecca143 that's exactly how I was too Bc my husband would play stupid video Games when i came home from the hospital and I had no fam no friends here in California until a month later when my mil and mom came to visit. I felt like I was going to go crazy I was always crying, arguing with him and breastfeeding.. It was hell. I take care of my baby alone most of the time Bc my husband has had to leave town for work on and off the past couple of months and I would do just that if she was crying I would let her cry sometimes rather than get upset. And now she's three months and I've just gotten used to taking care of her alone. When he's back from work I even feel weird leaving her with him lol. Trust me girl it will pass tell urself that it's not forever the first month and a half is the hardest just splash cold water in ur face and tell urself that. Good luck.

I lost it and won't even talk to the father and will not be informing him on his daughters birth until the next day if at all. Don't feel bad men suck

@danad269, I can give a newborn gas drops? I didn't know that.

@kmommy2be217, I'm trying not to lose it and just talk it out but that's not working at all.

@kibella22, Well if you can do it, so can I. I'm going to make it.

@emteebee, yes u can give a newborn gas drops!

@emteebee, yes! U can! Once that first month and a half are over ill be used to it and also feel more like urself. Men don't realize that giving birth and postpartum are serious time in a woman's life.

try baby wearing! put her in a sling and walk around it helps with my daughter she has super bad gas or lay down with her on your chest