Questions . I'm in a committed serious relationship with this guy over a year now . We have son who will be two months…
Questions . I'm in a committed serious relationship with this guy over a year now . We have son who will be two months old soon... I have a daughter and he Alreadly has two sons from a previous relationship so that's total of 5 children but anyways .... I would say things went fast . We moved jn tog as a couple back in the summer and learned how to get used to each other living tog but lately we've aruged ALOT it got so bad few weeks ago he broke the front door Knob n also took down a bedroom door ...we have called each other names n all that stuff but the things he say to me was really hurtful. Like calling me a bitch n the list goes on. I do love him. I kno he love me . He's just under sooo much stress with bills, taking care of me n kids but like I told
Him it's no excuse to take it out on me but few days ago we got into it again but long story short ... Baby was in bed tryin to sleep n he won't leave me alone he was yelling as he sat on bed so I kicked him twice in order to get him
Off n getting him to leave I guess he got mad n I told him I dare him to try to hit me because he was soo mad u know what he did?? He SPIT on me . I got sooo heated up
I kicked him out then I was ready to leave but he cried sooo hard n shaking n tried to say sorry blah blah . I haven't talked to
Him for two days . I talked to his mom because she knows we have been aruging n thinks we need to seek counseling but I dunno. It's just I'm tired of aruging all time but the fact that he spit on me?!??!? I can't even look at him the same anymore. I dunno what to do? Like I feel liek we need to breakup but at the same time we love each other too and we have kids and everything . I'm just stuck . Ladies what would u do? Leave him or stay n make it work for the sake of kids??
Dawn Weiss Craig Green·
Мама троих детей
Sounds like a dead end situation. God needs to heal this or break it up
Latoya·
I have left for less than than, I left because he was insecure and starting arguments.
Riesa·
Мама дочки-младенца
seek counseling first give yourselves a chance to change. if counseling doesn't work then do what your gut tells you.
10yearslater·
Мама сына (10 лет)
That's so hard. Maybe you just need to pray about it, ask the Lord to guide you. Every day I consider leaving... For different reasons. I'm trying to stay patient and pray. Good luck babe!
Maria·
Мама дочки-младенца
I would leave, imo spitting on someone is the point of no return. Like the previous poster said theres no reason you cant have a healthy friendship for the sake of ur children. Also think of the example this relationship is setting for your daughter and his children. They'll think that behavior is normal and healthy, which we know it isnt. Whatever you decide, good luck and be strong for ur kids.
Krystal·
В ожидании первенца
I think by leaving him doesn't mean you can't have a healthy friendship for the sake of your children! It'll be hard. But you don't want to chance being degraded like that again, and more importantly you don't want your Children to pick up on that negative energy! 😕 not judging you at all, takes a lot of courage to post stuff like that on here for the public to see! I say leave, and if he really loves you and his children he would respect your decision and still be the best father to his kids even if you both aren't together! 💙 hang in there!