So I'm a stay at home mom nd my husband works a stable job but he hates that I stay home..I cook,clean, take care of the baby and everything else u can think of all day everyday.he gets to come homw nd play video games or sleep or go where ever he wants and I never complain...but I wanna take a decent shower and ask him to watch the baby for 20 mins nd all of a sudden I don't do anything to contribute to this family.fuck I'm pissed..
my husband feels the same way. but honestly I was raised to be a mom and stay home with the kids. I couldn't stand leaving my child with a stranger who could very well harm our child. I told him maybe once lo is in school.
@mrs.cravens, I agree lol my husband has always been sort of a dick so adding a baby didn't help
I'm in the same situation I told him no point in paying my whole paycheck to somebody to watch my kid when I can spend all my time with her men are rediculous
my husband thinks we should both work 24/7 to have money to save for emergencies which makes sence and would have worked fine before I had a baby..now if I worked it would all go to child care.but even if I worked now I would still be doing everything else I do now plus a job with out his help or sleep..
I'm in the same boat except my husband definitely understands and agrees that it's better for me to be home because we don't trust people and all my money would be going to childcare anyway. I babysit and up until 37/38 weeks, I worked pt at Wal Mart to pay for my bills. Maybe you should just try a from home job? there are plenty of places hiring for call centers or maybe just babysitting or something.