Questions about whether or not to have a baby shower. I'm due in April but there are so many holidays until then. I just feel like people are going to be broke and I don't want people to feel obligated to get something or inviting people and no one shows up. Ugh... Maybe I'll pass... 😧
That depends can you afford to have the baby shower even if it doesn't mean you get loads of gifts? If so then I would have it.. Maybe some sort of cookout or something just because it's a fun experience to have and to celebrate your LO with friends and family. Then whatever gifts you get you get. As long as you're not one of those women who acts bratty when they don't get everything from their registry I don't think it matters lol
yeah that's true but people will consider your baby if u have a shower
@oshia5starlady, I'm a realistic person. Most people pay off big expenses and bills at tax time.
yeah tax time will be around that time I am having mines in March
@lun2016, that's true... but I haven't officially announced my pregnancy
@mylittleprincess, I haven't decided whether or not to have one. Most of the people I know don't know I'm pregnant.
tax time is around the corner as well lol
To all BBers...
I just wanted to let you all know I am thankful that you guys look out for one another, always give your opinion, and try to make people feel better when they are feeling down...you women are amazing...have a blessed night/day...☺️
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
I know Is so early but i feel flutters it feels so weird but i love it 🥰
Wish more people on here got the progesterone shot 😩 feel like that shit fucked up my body 😐
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
@elenasmommy, That's the whole point. I've recently hit some hard times, car/job loss and now I'm facing eviction. It has been a rough year.If I was still self sufficient I wouldn't need a shower. And since I come from a humble upbringing I'm not bratty but thankful for what little I do have.