am I the only one who isn't bothered by getting my cervix checked ? it doesn't hurt me at all. maybe…

@annabellesmommy, Uggh, it makes me so freaking uncomfortable, I feel violated after, everytime. Haha!!

I think it is super uncomfortable and I'm always sore afterwards!

i think it depends on who does it. When my dr does it, I don't even flinch. when I went to the hospital, the nurse who checked me made it hurt so bad I cried. I couldn't even keep myself flat on the table i was pushing myself up and back to try and get away from her. that was just a natural reaction I couldn't keep myself from pushing back. it was hell.

But I also think she was forcing it because she said I was a finger tip dilated and the dr said I wasn't at all.

well I sure hope the people at the hospital are gentle. because I have no problem going off on them. lol luckily my midwife will be the one delivering my baby. so hopefully she'll be the one always checking me! @mgaera16

never bothered me, and my ob wasn't super gentle

yeah. hopefully they are because that shit was hell lol you know it's bad when you grab your rails on your bed to prepare yourself BEFORE they check you lol if I didn't feel so out of it that day I would have went off too. @annabellesmommy

It hurt me so bad (and when I dot my water broken) that I kicked my doc checking me when I had my son ten yrs ago😩

I go to a place where I have multiple doctors and some hurt and some dont.