Has anyone else just gotten to the point with their SO that they just don't care? Like if he's cheating, I don't even…

I can't imagine the child care thing 😞😞😞😣 I'm sure that's stressful as hell

Same same @emteebee I know my guy has had side people currently has one now I'm sure we're broken up and live together but when we we're dating a month ago for a whole year I'd find different females articles or accessories about 6 or 7 times and he always blamed it on his cousins that he dropped off must have left it in the car yeah right ! My only problem is I do want us to work out to be s family for our future son but he doesn't respect me either and is extremely selfish he acts like he's the victim in all this like I'm the one cheating crazy asses they are lol

yeah i know what you mean. i feel the same way. i told him today i wouldnt even look through his phone if i had a chance cause i know he is fuckn up.

and it pisses me people always tell me to just leave him. And I'm like go where? To a homeless shelter so he can get custody of my kid (soon to be kids)? No I'll stay with him and hate my life before I lose my babies. I'm just trying to get on my feet so I can leave him some day and give my kids a good life. @juliagail09

I'm terrified to even accidentally catch a glimpse of what he does on his phone cause it'll just cause me a panic attack and crying. I'd honestly love having a separate bedroom from him so I don't have to pick up his mess lol. @juliagail09

That sounds exactly like my SO to a t. He has no respect for any women and only cares about friends. I feel better knowing I'm not the only one. @emteebee

Mine sleeps on the couch. And don't have any interaction besides bickering . It sucks but I have nowhere else to go 😒

i feel this way too. i feel like a single mom living in my boyfriends apartment. i have even discussed us doing seperate bedrooms. i dont go through his phone anymore either and honestly im too scared too cause normally everytime i do i just end up getting hurt because hes doing something wrong. he really doesnt want to marry me or seem to really want a future unlike me. which is shitty but whatever. i dont have no where else to go. so hmm idk.

I'm the same way and it wasn't my hormones at all. It was me being tired of having to force him to respect me and value me as a woman. I got tired of it. And when I was pregnant, he was not there for me at all. He went to a few appointments, argued with me mostly, and hung out with his friends all the time, had a side gf and gave me chlamydia. I was sooo done after that. We just coexist and that's all. So again, it doesn't always have to be your hormones. Sometimes, you just get tired of his shit and have to put your foot down.

Oh wow :/ I'm sorry

He's always been a cheater/liar and I'm just kinda over it. But I don't have any family I can live with so I'm stuck with him. I tolerate him for a place to live or I would have left 2 years ago. Hormones just made me hate him that much more. Lol @aliciaresendezz

I'm glad I'm not the only one. I want to be together as a family for our babies, but I don't want anything intimate with him anymore. @emteebee

it could be the hormones?

We're the same way. My SO and I play house like twice a month and then it's back to him doing him and me focused on me and my now arrived daughter. We don't even hug or say I love you.