So I'm planning a trip back to IL with my boyfriend. 18 hours away from where I am now. I'm scared, nervous, and everything else in between! I'm happy to finally be with him again but there's a problem.
I have no family there, his family is far away. My boyfriend might have a job which I'm so happy about! but I'll be alone, totally alone for 40+ hours a week. He's telling me I'll be okay, I'll do what I can because (in his words) "Women have been doing it for thousands of years." I understand but he doesn't seem excited or anything for our baby. I'm scared that its going to be just me with raising this child...
I'm a FTM and I don't think he understands how much anxiety and stress I have...
I hope I don't sound dumb. I'm sorry.
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Update! Today's the day!
I am less than 1 hour away from knowing if I'll have 3 teenage girls at the same time. ??????
So my water just broke and I have no idea what I'm supposed to do and I'm home alone
I'm such a sucker for these!! Unfortunately I'm rocking the baby to sleep and I have no clue what color my underwear is. I'll have to get back to ya'll!!
Scared I'm going to lose my job because next week i have to start NST twice a week. 45 mins away. I was wanting to work much longer than 32 weeks. Oh well, maybe my workplace will be understanding.. 😅
Universal preschool access
I don't think I've ever seen this topic discussed here? Anyways, there's a bill or something up in MN for universal access to preschool. I have some friends who live there who are completely against it and I'm trying to understand why. I can't understand their concerns because their concerns aren't how 4k works? At least not here and wouldn't be there from how I understand it.
You don't sound dumb and whether it's your first or your 10th kid I think we all have anxiety about our life changing. When you move to the area find a mommy group or take some birthing classes so you can meet new people. It is hard but so rewarding being a stay at home Mom but if you have the opportunity to not work it's a blessing.