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Gina
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So I'm planning a trip back to IL with my boyfriend. 18 hours away from where I am now. I'm scared, nervous, and…

So I'm planning a trip back to IL with my boyfriend. 18 hours away from where I am now. I'm scared, nervous, and everything else in between! I'm happy to finally be with him again but there's a problem.

I have no family there, his family is far away. My boyfriend might have a job which I'm so happy about! but I'll be alone, totally alone for 40+ hours a week. He's telling me I'll be okay, I'll do what I can because (in his words) "Women have been doing it for thousands of years." I understand but he doesn't seem excited or anything for our baby. I'm scared that its going to be just me with raising this child...

I'm a FTM and I don't think he understands how much anxiety and stress I have...

I hope I don't sound dumb. I'm sorry.

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soontobemomof5

soontobemomof5

Мама четверых детей, беременна

You don't sound dumb and whether it's your first or your 10th kid I think we all have anxiety about our life changing. When you move to the area find a mommy group or take some birthing classes so you can meet new people. It is hard but so rewarding being a stay at home Mom but if you have the opportunity to not work it's a blessing.

Universal preschool access

Universal preschool access I don't think I've ever seen this topic discussed here? Anyways, there's a bill or something up in MN for universal access to preschool. I have some friends who live there who are completely against it and I'm trying to understand why. I can't understand their concerns because their concerns aren't how 4k works? At least not here and wouldn't be there from how I understand it.