I have nothing against stay at home moms but when your husband is struggling to bring food to the table because he can't pull all of the financial weight on his own, you should really get a job. My brother in law and his girl always borrow money from us or from other people just to get by and she's pregnant only. She doesn't have little ones running around yet. She stopped working as soon as she found out she was pregnant because she wanted to "enjoy her pregnancy at home". Um, that's not a luxury she can afford. Ugh ! Lazy women 😒
@natsmommy people who choose that when they know their SO is struggling is plain lazy. it's not even right.
Shoot that's how my friend got hired . She's genuinely a sweet girl and awesome nanny
Omg for real. Lol, I'm gonna have to go hint at it and tell her all about care.com @mommy2jaidyn.noah
@bitty_mommy15, well of course that's completely understandable. I really was just talking about girls who just by choice don't work even if they have help. It's mainly directed to my sister in law who has many family members who have already offered to babysit when the baby is born and also she's fully capable of working pregnant she just chooses not to. When moms stay at home because they need to be with their babies that's fully understandable
Girl !!!! Then the ones that have nerve to complain about not getting pampered on top of that like hello bills and family needs first ! I know some can't afford daycare or anything but care.com actually doesn't have bad people and can provide background and drug checks when requested. A MAN IS NOT A FINANCIAL PLAN . What my mom always tells me
Exactly! It irritates me because I had severe morning sickness and working through that was so hard but I went to work everyday no matter what because my husband needed my help with that. And then there's women like you who would've liked to work but can't for medical reasons. So when a perfectly healthy pregnant woman doesn't work just cuz they don't feel like it is stupid especially if they have the necessity to work @monilovesautumn
some of them can't afford daycare and have no one to watch their child though and have to stay home with the baby. My fiancé is working his ass off but we have no one to watch our baby girl so I can't go get a job without leaving her at home alone. and I can't do that.
girl amen! I was working when I was pregnant I wanted to . but unfortunately I had to quit because my job was putting strain on my pregnancy . I would be in the hospital twice a month . so , my OB told me to resign..or go on maternity leave but I wasn't there long enough so I didn't qualify. but , now I wish I could have still been working. I miss my job those paychecks were awesome lol . 😔 that's why I despise when woman stay home when pregnant. like if it's not medically necessary or you just can't due to family hardships . then your ass should be working . never rely on a man to do everything .
lmfao at work this older lady was like.. youre a nurse I was like yes.. shes like I.want to go back to school but I have my.son I was like how old is he she said 17 dafuq.. I gotta 2 year old 6 year old and 7 month old.. finished school.pregnant nothing is entitled to anyone.