when your boyfriend tells you he hopes you die on the table giving birth... he says alot of mean things but tonight its really getting to me, I'm tired of being told to go kill myself. I'm due in a month and I just have a heavy feeling something bad is going to happen. I can't take this anymore.
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@mercy475, I have looked befor lets pray tomorrow is better
there are tons of women's shelters in Fayetteville! specifically for women/ pregnant women. I hope everything works out for the best, you don't need that sort of stress in your life 💙
thank you everybody. words of encouragement mean alot. I'm so appreciative. my mama knows what's going on we are just waiting for maddixs arrival and then I will be on a plane home to my mama and all will get better.
@mercy475, your so very sweet. I appreciate even just the thought. your getting ready to have a baby too. you don't need to take on a person who can't afford to eat if I leave. I'm going to check out the shelter tomorrow it will all be OK. just the thought of knowing somebody would do something like that for me is enough to make me smile and i don't hurt so bad.
I say its time to find a new a boyfriend. Nobody should be spoken to and be said something like that. That's just pure evil and cruelty. Call your family, I'm sure they will want to help if they knew what was going. Granted it may be just a month, but you and baby don't need the tension, negativity and ill will.
No. You're kidding me, right?
I have NEVER heard of a man saying such thing to the mother of their child. WOW! I'm sorry but leave his sorry ass ASAP. I know it's easier said than done but you can't be with someone like that. Ugh FUCK him!! Gets me so mad hearing stuff like this :/ especially for a beautiful momma to be :/
knowing you live less than 30 minutes from me and me not having an extra bed or a way to come get you because my boyfriend already left for work is killing me. I'll think of something.
Call your family to help you get home. As long as you take it easy one trip is better than those conditions.
I'm so afraid my baby won't survive because of this stress he wouldn't even let me eat dinner and I'm sleeping in the car
keep your eyes on the prize (moving out). you can't let him get to your head.
pack up and leave you don't deserve that and he doesn't deserve you or that baby
@nati86, I know its enough I live with him out of state I have no family here and I'm too high risk to leave until my daughter gets here. I plan on leaving he knows it its just getting thru this next month. I'm already in a domestic violence with him and I'm just trying to have her and leave. One more month...
so when is enough, enough? how much more abuse is it going to take you for you to leave? remember you have to love yourself first before you can love someone else. leave him and work in loving you so you can love your baby while he's working on living himself.
Wow, that is horrible. You don't deserve that at all. And for him say that about you and his child! Just crazy. I'm sorry you are going through that. Keep your head up. Best advice anyone can give is for you to leave. No one should be in that kind of environment. If you need to talk, don't hesitate to message me! 🙏🏼❤️
You need to leave. You don't deserve to be treated like that and you don't need that negativity now or ever, especially from the man who is supposed to be your support and the father of your child. Leave the next time you get the chance, I know it's not easy to just up and leave but there are times where you just have to.
Nobody deserves to be treated that way! NOBODY! Especially not the mother of your child. If this is the way he always treats you i would leave him without a doubt. Love YOURSELVES more mommies!!
Omg that is awful what he is doing to you! No man who loves you will say that to you. You should consider losing him and finding a man that treats you better. Stay strong.
You should not be with anyone who tells you to die. You don't need that kind of negativity right now.
leave his sorry ass, nobody should threaten someone like that! i would not be calling him my boyfriend. you deserve so much better than that. oh lord if anybody said that to me i would have knocked his ass out. I'm sorry your going through this! :(