@Jenn 4444, ☝🏻️☝🏻

@Jen n4444, @boogersbugsanddirt thanks ladies!!! I appreciate your time and advice.. Good luck to both of y'all and if I can help with anything for you please let me know

@isa238375, your thought process is noble, & i respect a mother that can set aside her personal feelings for the better interest of her child. good for you! parenting WIN! they say everything has a way of working itself out eventually... so with yours & my situation i see us being able to do what we see best & letting time take over the rest.

I can understand, trust me but you need to do what you think is right for you and baby. If his family disregards the baby, then you did what you thought was best.
Try Facebook and any old numbers you have. If you can't get ahold of them, then maybe it's just not the right time.

@Jenn4444 wow, I'm sorry for your situation.... I don't think they would give me a problem. But I just don't want to take the child's family away because he is an asshole... I mean if they want nothing to with him/her either that's fine but atleast I will know and I did what I had to do. Then I will also have answers for the child later. I don't want to keep my child a secret especially from his family. Ugh why do men suck so much

@isa238375, i know your pain... my situation is different but the emotions run along the same line. i was raped, & he doesn't know im pregnant so im alone in this too. my only advise could be to dig DEEP & become 100% sure with yourself if you want his family involved & would they support you? or cause problems concerning custody n so on. you are mommy, you are in control. 100%. you need to only do exactly what you feel will benefit yours & your childs life. just remember: the feeling of "being alone" will only last a bit longer, bcoz you are about to fall in love all over again with someone that will want to be with you forever!

@boogersbugsanddirt, thanks , yeah it sucks I don't know how to even reach her and I think if I tell her now he will only pop up to scream about why I'm trying to contact his family... Very hard place to be.

I would say somethinf. they may want to know. Sorry you're going through this.