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Okay, so I need some advice please.. my SO and I have been together for 4 years, married 1. When I was first pregnant,…

Okay, so I need some advice please..

my SO and I have been together for 4 years, married 1. When I was first pregnant, we didn't have sex a lot during the second and third trimester because I was huge, uncomfortable and just didn't enjoy it. He started looking at nude pictures, which really bothered me. We talked about it, and he said he would stop. Well he is at it again, and I'm not even pregnant! We have sex daily. So I just don't understand.. It really upsets me.. He knows how I feel about it. He knows it hurts me. I just don't know what to do. It makes me feel like I'm not good or sexy enough for him.

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millieesue

EmilyМама дочки-младенца

@t142, I will never understand why they do it. Why look at that crap when you have the real thing right in front of you?! I'm trying so hard not to cry because I'm so frustrated and hurt. If the tables were turned and we did that crap, we would be sluts. But they do it and it is totally normal and totally okay.

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nowadays1

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Sex everyday doesn't help. They still do it. I'll never forget how hard I cried when I found all of it in his phone. And we were having sex everyday many times a few times a day. Even then he didn't stop. I still found it on his phone. Now I don't but I think he deletes things or goes on the private browser of his phone.

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millieesue

EmilyМама дочки-младенца

@t142, that was the same way with me. It is always a chore now to have sex, but I feel like if I don't, he goes to the porn. Well I'm having sex with him every single day and now even that isn't enough! I feel so disgusted by him that I don't even wanna look at or talk to him.

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nowadays1

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Yup. Trust is gone and at this point I love him but I don't see him the same way I once did. It disgusts me and even having sex is a chore. I no longer find pleasure. Because I know of the stuff he does behind my back.

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millieesue

EmilyМама дочки-младенца

@xomermaid, what the hell do we do? 😡

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millieesue

EmilyМама дочки-младенца

I feel like crap when I go through his phone. But I just don't trust him anymore. @t142 I don't know if he will ever change. How can you see the hurt you've caused someone by doing it, only to sneak and do it again?

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xomermaid

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mines the saaaame way . it used to be when we had sexy daily too but after I flipped out on multiple occasions it had stopped for awhile . but of course if I'm gone for the night or day he's right back at it 😑

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nowadays1

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I know this pain all too well. My SO used to do it too. I always found pictures and porn on his phone. I haven't found anything for some time but now I don't trust him. Now, I feel like he just deleted everything. I hope these men change and realize it's wrong on so many levels.

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millieesue

EmilyМама дочки-младенца

@pregnant.midwife2016,

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millieesue

EmilyМама дочки-младенца

I've talking to him about it before. Before when it happened I was pregnant and emotional and I left and went to stay the night at my moms for the night. It was kinda bad, but he knew how bad it hurt me. I just don't understand why he is doing it again.. It makes me feel so sick.

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pregnant.midwife2016

pregnant.midwife2016Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

have you told him? if he doesn't stop he clearly isn't respecting you and needs a talking to...with a frying pan. lol. I'm sorry though, men are stupid unfortunately most of the time.

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