Any other preggo mama's get annoyed when their significant other whines about how sick they are? like I caught a cold and it turned into sinusitis, like I'm on an antibiotic. I gave it to my fiancee and he is acting like it's the end of the world. like try being pregnant too buddy! I literally cannot breath if I lay down. I love him so much, but it's annoying.
Why can't other mom's just be there for other mom's and work together and help each other not bash other mom's because when other mom's bash other mom's it makes us feel like we aren't doing a good job at least that's how I feel when I get bashed.
I hate this diabetes stuff it's annoying and frustrating
I hate that pressure that makes me feel like i have to use the bathroom but I don't it's annoying
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Lyanne·
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I know what you mean but to be honest men are just not as mentally strong as us. They won't be able to handle pregnancy.
Nina·
Мама сына (1 год)
I swear in the 3.5yrs I've been with my man, I've never known him to just have a cold. It's always a "man cold". And somehow I have to turn into his mother & have to give him his meds & take care of him bc he's dying lol
Ash·
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@nanner, seriously though. it seems like as soon as they get sick they turn into whiney little toddlers, but without the cute. But we love them so we put up with it. But when we are sick we are just like, mleh, this sucks, rub some dirt on it and get shit done. women are too busy to get sick haha. But if a man is sick don't you even think about asking him to get out of bed.
Nina·
Мама сына (1 год)
@xeraphim1221, Exactly! Any time I mention that I don't feel good or if I'm literally gasping for air bc I'm so sick, all I get is an "I'm sorry baby"... It's so aggravating!
Or if his back or something is hurting, he can do or take something to help with the pain. I can be in tears bc of the pain I'm in & ask him to rub my back, & yeah well, let's say I'm just dreaming there lol
Ash·
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@nanner, I know! like you are lucky if you get that lazy limp fist kind of caress for about 6 seconds before they are like "I'm tired and my hand hurts"... and if they are sick they are sooo grumpy and sensitive. I guess they weren't lying when they said being in a relationship is like adopting a big kid haha. it's okay though. I love him. wouldn't trade him for the world. haha