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am I wrong for being super jealous of all the cute baby showers my friends are having and the nursery I'll never get to…

am I wrong for being super jealous of all the cute baby showers my friends are having and the nursery I'll never get to decorate or have for my son? my baby shower sucked, I received nothing at all and I wanted to be able to make a cute nursery for my son. these were the things I looked forward to later in my pregnancy and neither happened like I wanted. :(

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jazmin805

jazmin

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I have this by our door and I spray the outside of our door every 2 days or so and its worked I think any spray would do fine tho.. I just don't want baby to get here and have them in here at all

jazmin805

jazmin

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It would have been nice if they would have told us so we also spray and they go away :/

mercy475

mercedes

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possibly! we didn't have roaches either until the people next to us move out and they sprayed and they all came over here. :( plus our hot water heater is leaking on top of that so they really like that too apparently @jazmin805

mercy475

mercedes

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possibly! we didn't have roaches either until the people next to us move out and they sprayed and they all came over here. :( plus our hot water heater is leaking on top of that so they really like that too apparently @jazmin805

jazmin805

jazmin

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We didn't have roaches but the neighbors fumigated and they are starting to come over here so I keep our snacks in these also

jazmin805

jazmin

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Would something like this work with a tight seal

jazmin805

jazmin

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😯I have an idea hold on

mercy475

mercedes

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we started saving a roll or two but we forget them in the bathroom or we forget to bring it with us. I also can't keep snacks in my closet because we have roaches and mice and its soo gross :( @jazmin805

jazmin805

jazmin

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What I do now is that in the closet we pack it with drinks and snacks organized..we bought$25 worth of drinks at biglots cuz it's cheap and $10 on snacks and that's was a week and a half ago..about half are still their, I should have thought if this a long time ago..we buy toilet paper..for us only and take the roll and bring it back to the room, we save soooooo much now just with that

jazmin805

jazmin

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I also wish we had a mini fridge and sitting on top a microwave would be perfect:( their expensive I know..and his mom has his sister and grandma,and brother here and only we pay and buy food and clean up

mercy475

mercedes

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I need to get a mino fridge for my bedroom but I don't have the spare money to buy one 😭 its so aggravating. my mom works 40 hours a week and then my sister and my brother don't work but my brothers girlfriend does and they just blow their money on stupid stuff instead of helping out. her mom bought her car for her all she has to pay is her 60 dollar insurance a month and that's it... and my mom doesn't make them pay anything to live there while charging us 255 dollars a month on top of everything we buy for the house... @jazmin805

jazmin805

jazmin

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I know it makes me so mad..I stay at home 24/7 so I obviously need food.. And that's why we buy food for the house..Sunday he bout I think it was $490 of food and almost 100 on drinks (let's see how long it will hopefully last we said ) it was all gone yesterday..3&1/2 days what the fuck !! I opened the fridge and it's literally empty 😭

mercy475

mercedes

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my boyfriend buys food for us too so we have food to last us a week and everyone else just eats all of it and it makes me so angry. we went grocery shopping and bought enough for us and everyone else in the house works too and will buy themselves fast food but eat our food when they have no money or they'll eat ours until its gone and then go buy their own @jazmin805

jazmin805

jazmin

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Basicay what's happening to you is happening to me :( I do get jealous and wish my baby would have all of that. We pay 150 a week when the rent for the entire house is only 600 he buys groceries (200) a week so that "I " can have food but it's all gone within 2 days, and nobody cleans after themselves it's discussing

mercy475

mercedes

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they don't all the do is help dirty it and when I spend 3 hours cleaning a kitchen 1/3 the size of my bedroom and an hour cleaning the bathroom and I get mad for them dirtying it up in a day or two I'm the bitch and I'm being hateful @jessica408

jessica408

Jessica

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yeah that's wrong...why aren't they working out buying shit!? that boils my blood...they need to pull their weight. you guys are having a baby...they should be helping keep the house afloat...

mercy475

mercedes

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@jessica408, I always forget to tag you :p

mercy475

mercedes

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my boyfriend has a job and works 70 hours a week but I live in a house with 4 other people besides him and they rely on us to constantly buy everything from food to trash bags, toilet paper, shampoo and conditioner. EVERYTHING. they go through like a big package of toilet paper in less than a week all because he makes more than everyone else. they also went through half a bottle of dish soap in a day, as well as 44 trash bags in a day... and money is just so so so tight on top of all of our other bills

jessica408

Jessica

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trust me girl. money is tight over this way too. my boyfriend has a job but no hours. I was FIRED after I revealed my pregnancy. trust me. I totally get it.

mercy475

mercedes

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@jessica408,

mercy475

mercedes

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we hadn't bought anything yet and are going to start it's just I looked forward to my baby shower being cute and fun and it was awful and awkward especially because I planned it myself and the week we were supposed to start buying stuff we ran into money problems :(

jessica408

Jessica

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that's why we're buying everything we possibly can. I don't rely on anyone. :(