Does anyone feel like their partner isn't excited for the baby at all? Mine showed no interest at the last ultrasound and he always talks about his son (another mom) which is great because his son is amazing but he seems to not care at all for this new baby.
he has bought stuff for her but it doesn't compare to what he does for the other 2 he has than when asked how many kids he has he says 2 like he doesn't have one on the way sometimes I feel he's just like fuck her I'm getting fed up with it @chevma13
@marimom, that's exactly how my guy is. I think it will change once the baby is here but it would be nice if he expressed even a little bit of interest. if he ever brought home an outfit or toy I'd probably cry.
same here my boyfriend has 2 girls he brags about and is always getting stuff for yet he has done nothing to show her cares about our baby. I've asked him to go to appointments at first he says yes but when the day comes he tells me he doesn't feel like it yet if they call and need anything he jumps up I get so mad when he does that but hopefully it changes when our baby girl arrives
Mine is same way. He doesn't talk about it and hasn't even asked to go to my appointments yet.
maybe he will be more excited when we find out what we are having next week
Mine was like that until i was about 16 weeks along. Know i cant get him off the belly
Some men just don't catch the drift until the baby Is born...they are a bit slow at times. Don't you worry!!! 😘💗Lol
Sometimes it takes until the baby is here for it to be real for a father
I hope he comes around, because he's a great father even if he isn't the best person sometimes.
I agree with @babybermea - sometimes it takes a while for it to sink in. Sometimes, it takes the delivery to happen for it to become real to them. Hopefully he will come around soon xo
My boyfriend has two kids from a previous relationship and sometimes I feel like that. He is super supportive but doesn't get excited about the things I get excited about. This is my rainbow baby and I didn't make it this far last time so everything is new and exciting to me. Heavy sigh. I understand
Maybe it just hasn't hit him yet . They say women become moms the moment they see positive preggo test and men don't until the babies born . My friend had this issue and now he's the best daddy I think it was just so new to him at first
it's not fair really, I hope it doesn't continue after the baby is here, I don't think anyone should favor one child over another.