Shadeja
shadeja16
Shadeja·Мама двоих (9 лет, 15 лет)

Don't feel too attractive anymore. Trying to remember I'm pregnant but I was fat before pregnancy too... 😩😩😩

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shadeja16
Shadeja·Мама двоих (9 лет, 15 лет)

Same to you darling 💕 @yrmaaaa

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yrmaaaa
Yrma·Мама сына (9 лет)

@shadeja16, good luckk !! :)

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shadeja16
Shadeja·Мама двоих (9 лет, 15 лет)

@yrmaaaa, you're so right. I'm right behind you. I'm 23 weeks.

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yrmaaaa
Yrma·Мама сына (9 лет)

@shadeja16, exactly and I am only 24 weeks.. I can't even imagine what is going to be like when im 35 weeks omg... Well we gotta stay strong its all for our babies 😍 I guess its all worth it!

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shadeja16
Shadeja·Мама двоих (9 лет, 15 лет)

@yrmaaaa, awwww that is terrible on his behalf. I keep trying to think about the day we will get to meet our second one. I'll feel good to know the weight gain was all for him. But this situation is putting a toll on our relationship, our sex life, and it's making me feel a bit uncomfortable to even talk to him anymore about it

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shadeja16
Shadeja·Мама двоих (9 лет, 15 лет)

@chocohunnybees, sigh it's so stressful. I'm just trying to hold it all together but I'm really falling apart.

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yrmaaaa
Yrma·Мама сына (9 лет)

I feel the same way, i wasnt fat tho but I really feel unattractive and tonight my boyfriend asked me if I am going back to the gym when the baby is born 😐 makes me feel terrible 😔

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chocohunnybees
Desirae Cornish·Мама сына (11 лет)

my husband did the same thing, until one day I just feel apart and let him for awhile,

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shadeja16
Shadeja·Мама двоих (9 лет, 15 лет)

@chocohunnybees I said something and he apologized. And then he did it again and this time got upset and said that he thinks I'm trying to control him. I don't know how to feel anymore. I know we all see other people that are attractive but I'd rather him keep that to himself as I would. It's a respect thing. No I'm not the prettiest in the world and that's why I always made sure I had more to offer than just my looks but with everything going on I am falling apart. It's gotten so bad that I don't even want to do things around the house anymore. I feel so unappreciated. And then have a 5 year old on top of all of that. I'm sorry so much but I really needed to vent

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chocohunnybees
Desirae Cornish·Мама сына (11 лет)

he needs to stop that

have you talked to him about it?

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shadeja16
Shadeja·Мама двоих (9 лет, 15 лет)

@chocohunnybees I'm really having a hard time believing that. I thank you though. And it's Ben worst because my fiancé doesn't even look at me the same anymore and he likes to make nice comments about other women. Yep that's really tearing me up on the inside. I'm trying I really am. I am already having a hard time on my own and then to have him do those things doesn't make it any better.

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chocohunnybees
Desirae Cornish·Мама сына (11 лет)

you're beautiful. for real, people like you make me mad cause y'all make pregnancy look so good xD

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