anybody else feel like their partner isent as interested in the baby as you thought they'd be,he…

My husband is the same. Some guys (not all guys) don't like talking about it. Somehow it makes them feel uncomfortable. Wait until the baby comes! That's what I'm doing. I'm sure he'll change once he sees the baby!

yes. my husband begged me for this baby because I was done (we have 5 kids, 3 biologically mine) and now that I'm pregnant he has no interest. he makes rude comments about it (joking of course) but it gets on my nerves. I know deep down he's happy but he doesn't show it. 😒

yes mine is like both of yours I've been with him for 3 years and now that we have our priorities and everything set and I'm going to graduate college we tried and now it's like he begged for her and now he has little to no interest he calls me chubby and fatty and stuff like that playfully tho but sometimes it gets to me and I asked him and he said that's his way of calling me beautiful because he thinks I'm beautiful with a chubby tummy so idk he had a weird way of expressing himself @maybaby2016 @bellahali

men are not that smart lol you just have to remember that. they'd fall apart without women and they just have their own weird way of being. I'll mention the baby and my husband will roll his eyes and say "don't remind me" then laugh...he's.... a dork but I know he's happy, he begged my ass forever and it's not like he doesn't know what he's getting himself into. just wait till baby comes, I'm sure your man will be happy, like @bellahali said

my husband was the same up until my son was born. that's why I'm not worrying this time with our daughter lol

Haha okay I'm just glad it's more common then not

thank you guys @bellahali @nerdmamatn @maybaby2016

:) it's a guy thing. it becomes more real once the baby is actually there.

My baby's father was the same, he didn't start to take interest til I was like 30 weeks

my hubby was like that, he wouldnt really touch my belly or anything either....but you should see him now he is sooo crazy over our babygirl and has been since he first saw her

that brings me alot of relief like he kisses my stomach one in a blue moon or if I ask him if he's happy he says Yeah it just is never a real conversation but I felt it was because it's a girl not a boy like he wanted but hopefully he will be like your husband @azuryjaneth

thats how guys are lol they try not to show too much emotion, but im sure he will be, my hubby wanted a boy so bad he didnt really want a girl , and now that im preggo again he says he wants another girl

@analisa_ag, yes my guy is the same but he even told me he's going to be more excited happy when the baby's kicking him and when he actually gets to hold the baby that's when it's more real for guys I guess lol I'm excited over every ultrasound but he's just like blah up until that point then he said he will be hype lol. I wanted a girl but daddy's getting his boy so either way I'm happy !