Don't be afraid to ask questions. If they don't offer, ask. This is your body and your experience. You demand how you want it to go
my doctor sucks. he doesn't even check anything when I go in or explain anything...I'm 18. I wasn't supposed to be able to have kids not to mention I was on birth control. I have no idea what I'm doing ...I've made it this far because I just guess on what I need to do plus I read what to expect when your expecting. I don't know my preferences.
I'm not really making a birth plan other than the basics.. I'm fine with pain Meds.. I want a delayed umbilical cord clamp, I want my baby immediately wiped off and put into my arms and I want him or her to stay in my room at all times. My husband is the only one in the room other than nurses and Drs and such.
just like what you'd prefer as far as while in labor, pain medication, if you want student doctors there or not, etc. just your preferences.
Your doctor might give you one, you just check off the stuff you want or don't want..
I've asked and he just looks at me like I'm stupid....I'm still a kid myself so idk what his problem is...I'm on the states insurance because I'm single and don't have a job. maybe that's why he doesn't really help me. and thank you. I look at it