I never understood the whole family members being mad about not being able to come in the delivery…

Some people feel entitled, my mom was like that, thought she should have went back in my csection with me. Lol as if. I had my mil sil and hubby in while I pushed this time and again just hubby when it ended in csection it was peaceful and great but no one expected to be in the room it was my choice

I completely agree. Some women are so selfish.

I let my fiance know that ONLY him and my mom will be in the delivery room his mom my MIL will be out waiting and he was pissed thinkin he's the 1 that decides who can be in the room.... uuum NO its us women who decides plus she gets on my nerves and i don't want her lookin at my vagina only my mom cuz she's the 1 that gave birth to me.... lol but my fiance in his little mind thinks HE'S the 1 that gets to decide that 😅 you just don't know can't wait to tell the nurse to escort his mother out to the waiting room

@lilyandkaidynsmommy, @onemoretime yea I think it's crazy that it's even an argument. I will say my moms twin sister who's like my second mom called and asked if I wanted her to come during or after I said after and that was the end of it. I can't believe people's family actually think they have the right to get mad about it. & I genuinely don't see what's so upsetting about waiting till after! It's not your baby so why do you want to see it covered in my bodily fluids lol. That's just how i think about it but I guess some people are more sentimental

@melox_90, luckily my in laws aren't pushy like that but I would tell the nurses to take them out to if they tried lol. His mom will probably be waiting outside so if she wants to come in and say hi for a second during the early stages I might not mind but when it's time to push nobody watching but my hubby and mom.

@elenasmommy, same here !

My mother and grandmother threw a fit about it to the point we still don't talk today, among many other things that happened that day. Only my best friend and fiancé were allowed, because honestly I didn't want to share that moment with any family, they can wait. 😂 My daughter will be 10 months old this month, when I give birth to this baby I am being privately listed so no one can just walk in because that's how ridiculous it was last time. 😒😒😒

It's kind of an awkward thing in my family to give birth in front of everyone. It just going to be my husband and if he cannot handle it (big sissy) then I want my mom to help. No one else has said anything and I'm not surprised. It's just awkward!

To all the fathers of the babies, show your d*ck to the family then maybe we'll consider your mom and family members in the delivery room. @melox_90

@bellahali, right! 😂😂

@bellahali, hahaha good point. I don't see why anybody's husband thinks his mom should have to be there to see his wife give birth. If she's close with the MIL and wants to then that's one thing but why should your mom see my vagina. Just no 😂😂😂 come see the baby after

@their.bomb.ass.mom, wow that sucks I'm sure my moms feelings might be a little hurt if I chose someone else to come in instead of her because she's my mom but she wouldn't let me know.

Lol, I don't get along with my mom though, never have. But even then just not something I wanna share with them, my dad said he would be there if I wanted him to be but I just said I'd rather him not and he was cool with it and acted like an adult. this time it'll only be my fiancé, but I don't think I'll have any problems this time. I just hate when people act like they automatically get to be there when at the end of the day it's the mothers choice and who makes her comfortable.