please no judgement.
i love my daughter to death. but i dont feel like shes mine and I'm always sad when i have her around. im always looking for someone (trusted) to watch her so i dont have to because the only time i feel like i dont want to die is when I'm not around her. i dont miss her when shes gone.
its so bad my mom offered to adopt her but i dont wanna let go of her because i do love her so much.
i feel like such a horrible mother.
i get upset with her even though shes only a month old. and want to throw my head in a wall.
am i just not cut out for this? should i just let my mom take her?
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ask your doctor for some meds and have your mom watxh her until the meds kick in I promise it will all get better and your not a bad mom just maybe suffering from post partume depression.
No judgement is being passed but I'm almost positive you have PPD aka Post Partum Depression. And another commenter said, "you will get over it" that is not true, you don't just get over PPD....it HAS to be treated. You NEED to go talk to your doctor about this. PPD is a very serious condition and they can help you and make you feel so so much better. Your baby deserves her mama to be at her best so please seek help. Message me if you ever need to talk or if you have any other questions.
Sound like you have post partum depression. It's serious & you should talk to your doctor about it asap.
PPD get help. You don't just 'get over it' it's been 2.5 years since I gave birth to my son and I still struggle with PPD.
My mom was like that with my sister you may want to talk to someone about it honey 😢.
its called ppd, you will get over it..... i hope all is well... you may feel better if you talk to someone
I think you should seek help no shame in asking for help.
u may have PPD talk to your Dr about how you are feeling and they will point u in the right direction
I felt the same way after my first was born. I already loved him so much but at the same time I didn’t want to take care of him or be around him much. It was hard cause I felt like a horrible person because of it. My grandma finally dragged me into the doctor Office one day and made me tell the doctor how I was feeling. I had been too scared to ask for help. Please go talk to someone and get help. I know it’s hard, but they CAN help you and you can get through this and things can be better. And in the meantime, don’t be afraid to ask for help with your daughter while you navigate thru this rough patch.