ANSWERSSSS NEEDED !!!!
okay so basically i haven't put my child on social nedia for personal and spiritual reasons, my mother seems to think i'm stripping her of her "grandparents rights" because i've asked her NOT to post my child, (she's allll for social media attention & likes) and she's saying i'm taking a proud moment away from her. am i wrong ? then last she proceeds to tell my fiance that she was going to post a picture today, NOT ASK but TELL. like excuse me ? that's over stepping your boundaries. advice pleaseeeee !
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oh i'm definitely going to stand my ground, like i told her, if you don't want to be in my daughters lige because you can't put her on social media, she doesn't need you in her life ! @levleah
Stand your ground. You came to the decision to not post pics for a reason- don't let her bully you. If she wants friends and family to see pics of her, there's always showing pics in person or old fashioned snail mail. I'm still undecided about posting pics of my daughter, but whatever I decide, I'll want others to respect my wishes.
uggggh im reallllly upset at the fact she can't peacefully respect my wishes ! @caseclosed2015
Wow really??? That's just too much. It's just a picture. I can see now why you're upset.
it's not something that i just came up with out of the blue ive let eceryone know since i was 20 weeks or so, i just don't understand why she's making it such a huge deal, then even went as far as well ill just worry about/deak with her when she's 18 and can make her own decisions. like realllllly ? okay all she really need is God, her mother & father so okay ! @caseclosed2015
I think its such a big thing for grandparents to be able to shoe off their grand babies and that's why she's hounding you. But I don't think you are wrong if its what u want then she has to accept it.
i can understand that but i myself have not even posted my child. its like she's more obsessed with posting her than i am. @datnavajogirl
I understand how u feel. I honestly don't mind my mom takes picz all the time and post it on her fb I don't mind cuz I know she is friends with family/ppl I know . and plus I don't have a fb so
is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
I just absolutely love some women on here! Some woman wants to write on another women's post telling her she shouldn't be having sex at all in the beginning of pregnancy. I didn't know she was her doctor. Then she wants to tell me that the first trimester is only 1-9 weeks pregnant. And she lost her baby at 4 weeks pregnant due to sex. Like sweetie that's your period starting!
My baby girl does not let me do anything all day 😭 I'm lucky if everything is done before my s.o gets home , she cried so I pick her up to feed her and change her diaper and once she's on my breast she eats and I burp her put her down and she'll cry I get her again and she's on my breast not even latched on just smelling my boobs 😭 I'm like girl really lmao she wants me to carry her or be with her all day , girl I wish I could lmao
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
smh i know, it's reallly frustrating, like my child is 16 days old and these are the issues already smh, just sad ! @phasion