and by her I mean my husband's ex wife

In order for her to come even remotely close to getting your baby, she would have to prove you to be to unfit of a parent, and trust me, it takes ALOT to prove that. I'm in the middle of starting the adoption process on my son, and we have a shit ton of stuff on her, and a big one was finding out that she did drugs while she was pregnant with her 2 month old daughter, so it will be easy. My MIL wasn't mad about not being in the delivery room with my daughter, but she was pretty pissed that I wanted my mom to hold her first.

She can try to get custody all she wants without proof of you being unfit she would never get anywhere

Sounds like she's trying to scare you into - what she wants you to do. 😐👎🏼

For me the most important person to be there is my mom cause Imma a huge mommys girl and I don't think I can take the pain without her lol. But I wouldn't think of letting my MIL come in

The only time someone can take the baby if they find you are an unfit mother and I'm definitely sure you are not and you can take good care of that baby she is just being crazy it's your choice who you have in the room it's your baby and your pregnancy. she is just acting like a child.

She can't file for custody she's just the grandma...lol some states have laws allowing the grandparent to file for visitation if the parents aren't letting them see the baby but that's about it

Yours all yours no one can take him that's kind of ridicules for someone to say that.

the court will laugh at her because of this. you don't need to file at all. she's over reacting

@frances.gln92,

she cant do that. and once the baby is born you already have full custody of the baby, shes just being extremely dramatic and nosey. How sad

No. She can't take your child. For some reason they like to say that to scare women. She's just talking. Ugh! People are so silly.

Exactly why I don't want anyone in there.
And probably because she's selfish

that's completely your choice?? she can't file for custody because you don't want her there when your baby is born.... the court would just laugh at that. I can't believe she would even try that!

1. why does she want to be in there that's a little to personal for my taste.
2. why is she gonna file for custody when you are very capable to take care of your own child.