so I will be 20 weeks tomorrow I found out today I'm having a boy. I'm trying to be happy & positive about it but I…

well maybe I mean I have all the boys clothes I need from my son

I'm sure once you start shopping for outfits and such for your little boy you'll get the excitement that you're wanting!!

thanks everyone this really helps! I feel like a horrible person for feeling this way. this is not my first I have an 8 year old step daughter & my son will be 2 in december

I felt the same way when I had my 3rd little boy but now I couldn't imagine my life any other way without my snuggle partner. I didn't do a very good job of hiding it though and cried on our way home from the ultrasound but my husband was really supportive of my feelings and let me sort through them in my own time which took about a week.

@lobsterfamily2, I wanted a girl really bad and had a name and a shower theme and I was so shocked when she said boy I didn't even think about being pregnant with a boy lol but I promise you'll come around and get excited after the shock wears off .

Congratulations

hunni I cried when I found out that my first was a boy but I promise u the love a son has for his mom is the best feeling in the entire world..

Yeah I hope I get over it quickly too

I wanted a girl so badly as well , I had such different symptoms with my second I was convinced he was a girl but at my 20 week ultrasound found out I was having my second boy ! I was a little bummed out at first but I got over it quickly! Im just suppose to be a mommy to little boys

boys are funny very hyper an exciting i think girls are more calm though , but you should be happy as long as he is healthy a baby is a blessing weather boy or girl.

I hate that a feel this way at all. but we plan on having one more in a few years so maybe it will be a girl next time.

I felt the same way!! I wanted a boy so bad! But end up with another girl

I really wanted a boy too but im having my 4th lil girl... I felt the same