so I will be 20 weeks tomorrow I found out today I'm having a boy. I'm trying to be happy & positive about it but I wanted a girl so badly. I don't want to show my true feeling to my husband friends or family.
I'm sure once you start shopping for outfits and such for your little boy you'll get the excitement that you're wanting!!
thanks everyone this really helps! I feel like a horrible person for feeling this way. this is not my first I have an 8 year old step daughter & my son will be 2 in december
I felt the same way when I had my 3rd little boy but now I couldn't imagine my life any other way without my snuggle partner. I didn't do a very good job of hiding it though and cried on our way home from the ultrasound but my husband was really supportive of my feelings and let me sort through them in my own time which took about a week.
@lobsterfamily2, I wanted a girl really bad and had a name and a shower theme and I was so shocked when she said boy I didn't even think about being pregnant with a boy lol but I promise you'll come around and get excited after the shock wears off .
hunni I cried when I found out that my first was a boy but I promise u the love a son has for his mom is the best feeling in the entire world..
Yeah I hope I get over it quickly too
I wanted a girl so badly as well , I had such different symptoms with my second I was convinced he was a girl but at my 20 week ultrasound found out I was having my second boy ! I was a little bummed out at first but I got over it quickly! Im just suppose to be a mommy to little boys
boys are funny very hyper an exciting i think girls are more calm though , but you should be happy as long as he is healthy a baby is a blessing weather boy or girl.
I hate that a feel this way at all. but we plan on having one more in a few years so maybe it will be a girl next time.
I felt the same way!! I wanted a boy so bad! But end up with another girl
I really wanted a boy too but im having my 4th lil girl... I felt the same
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I WANT MY BABY ! 😡 takes 40 weeks??? Seriously though!!! 😩😫 new date given so now I'm 36w2d
So how do you Ladies feel about birth control. I'm against it cause I want my body to do what it naturally does. I've faced infertility issues so I'm not for it but my mom feels I should be on it after I have Tyson.
i'm getting my baby circumcised tomorrow & it makes me so sad. i want to do it but i don't want to see him hurting :( makes me cry every time i think about it
I'm so upset my husband just informed me, that my 16 yr. Old daughter told him while I was gone that I was a bad Mom with too many kids, that I was dumb because I dropped out of school, that she wanted to part in meeting her new sister in December. I'm so broken and don't know what to do!
well maybe I mean I have all the boys clothes I need from my son