Ok so I had a discussion with the baby daddy... And families don't get along.... And he is talking…

Lol if they can't put differences aside for one day a year to celebrate your child then they don't need to be there ✋

@vinnysmomma

i wouldnt do all of that either.. this isnt about them and if they cant get along they shouldnt come.. it sucks when people think everything is about them and they wanna act stupid..

Thank you!! You think baby daddy would get that! There is NO WAY I am going to plan 3 baby showers and 3 birthday parties for my son a year! @vinnysmomma

@waffles2016 thank you! Ugh I hope my baby daddy can get that through his head too. And accept it. but having a co ed baby shower isn't bad is it? Lol

thats doing to much and that will be extra money your spending because ppl cant get a long there all grown the least they can do is be corgul i agree with you if they have a problem they shouldnt come there making it about them when its suppose to be about the baby.

i hope your baby daddy can understand that as well. i invited people to my baby shower that dont get along as well but they all promised to stay away from each other. and nope it isnt bad at all im having a co-ed baby shower too..

@braylinsmommy granted, we will be missing out on a couple presents we could of gotten if they don't come because of whomever but whatever lol.

@waffles2016, can only hope. We were gonna have it at Dave and buskers because it'd be free party room because baby daddy works there but I feel like being there it would keep everyone off eachother since there's so much you can do there. But it's whatever we will see. I'll have to tell baby daddy if he don't agree with me on one party then he can plan all of them solo lol

lol i agree if he wants all them parties he should plan them.. dave and busters is a good idea i would worry about people drinking and starting crap though... but hopefully they are so distracted with everything they wont even bother.. its hard when you have immature adults who are like that.. its a baby shower its about celebrating this new life your bringing into the world its not about them..

I had a coed shower and cookout, it was so much fun! And people I think are more inclined to come if they can bring a spouse or friend 💁🏻

To go along with what @waffles2016 said, we had beer at my baby shower and people were tipsy and kinda drunk but none of the people who had a problem started anything. They were all really mature about the situation going into it though, I can't say the same for your group though because I don't know the situation