OK ladies, I need advice and a little support with something... My husband has been considering alot here lately about changing jobs... He wants to get a job thats an hour away that could keep him home for weeks at a time... Well, if he can't get it, he wants to join the military... In the past, I had a boyfriend who joined National and he left for basic, never wrote, and came back and broke my heart... I've been married to this man since 7/12/13 and we just had our beautiful baby girl on 10/21/15... I know that the military would be good for us... I know we'd have what we need and all and maybe even a little extra, but we just had our baby... And I don't know if I can live in fear of the same thing happening again... This is my family... I don't want to lose it... Not only that, but where we live, I know ONLY his mom and grandpa and my MIL and I don't get along at all... I know he can do it... And I know its his dream... Hes always talked about it. But how do I get past this insecurity? I don't want to live in fear... I don't want to ask if he's coming home. If he will still love me when he does come home. Why he's not writing. If he's OK... What if I'm not strong enough? :/ There's a place for basics 3 hours away and a base 45 minutes away, but it still feels the same... What's your opinions? :/ I'm trying to tell myself to let him do what needs to be done to take care of us, but I'm so scared to lose this :(