so I finally kicked my brother in law out. now I feel like a complete asshole. I hate being the bad person. it's so…
so I finally kicked my brother in law out. now I feel like a complete asshole. I hate being the bad person. it's so crazy too because before my pregnancy I wouldn't have cared about anyone's feelings. now I'm like sad for him. lol
Heather·
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I emphasize with you...I had to kick out my own brother. He munched off my husband and I for 5 months. All while causing problems in our home and being an a** h*** to me. I'm glad he is gone now I can focus on what's important and not his baggage he brought in my home. I feel bad but he did it to himself!
VicNik·
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it's so hard!! our bills literally DOUBLED. everything was so expensive! and he wasn't working at all to help out with the bills. plus he would stay couped up and not even come out to eat!! that was the part that got to me most! he's 17. and his mom lives across the street. so I just knocked on his door this morning and told him we'd help him move his stuff back home in a little. I feel bad, but now I have my daughters room back! and it'll be so much more affordable! @babybean0015
Heather·
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Yes! You literally took the words out of my mouth in describing what it was like having my brother living with me. Except my brother is 25 and our mother lives a state away. But yeah it was like we adopted an ungrateful hermit son that sucked up our resources and energy. He would sleep until 3pm and not look for work. He never thanked me and my husband for any thing we have done for him. He even threw a fit when I asked him to watch my older daughter while I was giving birth. Really? He never gave us a dime for food, rent, utilities, nothing! And he did not want to help me out. That's when I said you need to leave! ASAP! Selfish jerk! I feel bad for any woman who ends up marring his sorry a**..... Thank you for letting me vent! It's always nice when someone can relate to a difficult situation @annabellesmommy
VicNik·
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YES!!!!!!!!! and since he was cooped up in his room it would stink!!!! we have animals. that are still puppies and they'd tear up stuff while we were gone and he was there. I would get SO pissed because I knew for a fact he saw or heard them doing stuff! he wasn't helpful at all. and it was like I was constantly picking up after a kid that isn't mine ! the worst thing ever. lol I feel the same way. I don't know what woman is going to want to deal with someone who can't even clean up after themselves. I mean he wouldn't even feed himself!!!!! like what in the world ?! and of course! its def nice to know I'm not the only person going through it ! or went through (: @babybean0015
Justina·
Мама двоих (4 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
I'm In the same boat with my younger cousin ! Ugh ! I feel bad but I told him today he has until the 6th. He never contributes and I can't afford anything extra and it so frustrating lately because I'm trying to buy baby stuff and Christmas stuff and just the essentials that are necessary to get by. Also I have to constantly pick up after him and remind a grown ass man to do his part ! Im done I've been nice I just can't anymore !