when will my family realize that if my baby daddy dont like them why would i have them at the…
when will my family realize that if my baby daddy dont like them why would i have them at the hospital to cause problems and stress me out after having a baby. my parents are like but thats my grandkid and my brothers like well thats my niece but they dont realize its his daughter and he has more authority than any one of them. lol
Heather·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I would think that everyone needs to put their differences aside and stop acting like children . It should be a time where everyone should enjoy the baby not be selfish and make it about them with the who likes who who doesn't !!
missing137user·
Мама сына (8 лет), беременна (35 нед.)
I totally agree with @mommyofmisters !!
Keyundra Campbell·
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agree with @mommyofmisters
Judy (Judith)·
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yeah but all they do is down talk him so i see where he is coming from that he dont wanna deal with them. its supposed to be a happy time for me and him not stressful and they should at least respect me enough to not put me in that position not like they aint never gonna see her they can wait until im ready. you get what im saying @mommyofmisters
new_mami87·
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Man can't they put their feelings aside for you and baby girl and be cordial.
jada cincere·
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I agree with @mommyofmisters if they can't put their differences aside for the baby then they Don't deserve to be there
Judy (Judith)·
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@new_mami87, @amorasmom i topd them all that i just want it to be me and him cause ik how they are and they are just gonna try and talk shit to my baby daddy. if my very best friend understands and is willing to wait until my baby daddy isnt around i dont see why my family cant just respect my wishes.
jada cincere·
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well that's their loss if u don't want them there all u have to do is tell your doctor they will make sure they get nowhere near u until you allow it
Natashia·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Sounds like everyone is putting you in the middle.. If everyone loves you as they should try to talk to everyone separately and let them know how important it is for everyone to be there... I'm pretty sure your family will be hurt if the cant come. Seems like they are dealing with the fact that they are hurt with anger
Judy (Judith)·
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and honestly i dont think its fair that while he is celebrating the birth of mine and his daughter that he has to deal with bs from my family when it is supposed to be one of the happiest moments of his life.
Judy (Judith)·
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@mellowtash, its kinda my familys fault they cant get along cause they are constently drunk and all they want to do is get in my buisness when they are drunk and they say things they shouldnt say about me and him.
Judy (Judith)·
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i can handle the critism im used to it but my babydaddy feels he shouldnt respect noone that dont respect him.
Natashia·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
I understand better now... I wish you an happy deliver... 💖
Judy (Judith)·
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thank you @mellowtash i just hope noone ruins it for me lol
Natashia·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
lol! You're welcome
Jessica·
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My BF mother doesn't like me and I don't plan on having her around my child. When she changes her attitude towards me, then she can be around my child. I definitely don't plan on having her at the hospital
Judy (Judith)·
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@gorjessmommy, thats exactly how my bd feels and i respect that. just wish everyone wouldnt make it about them.