So my BFF came NYC for my sons christening, she's one of the Godmothers. She's of course staying with me. However, she's been no help. I mean if I ask her to help me with the baby, she does, but initiate, not at all. She's actually taking a nap right now smh. I guess I'm just different. When she had her son,who's 7 now, I always offered. I did all that I could, just off of imagining how hard it could be taking care of a baby. Ugh. I'm just totally disappointed