yeah we live together, this is my third and his second but he wasn't really there like that for his first child because of distance

Do you guys live together? My SO and I don't and I feel the same way. It's just me no other kids but I envy the fact that he goes home and sleeps great and I'm always awake and hungry and hurting and so on and when I ask him to spend the night it's always an excuse like his job is closer to his house and I live to far and I'm just like so in February are the same excuses going to be there when our daughter is here. I will say this is both of our first child and he has admitted to being scared and overwhelmed so I think he's distant because of that but it's still no excuse to me. I've just accepted it and I'll let him come around when he's ready but I'm not going to make it easy for him.

There's good and bad things that happen everyday jut cherish the good and smile at the bad. The happier you stay the stronger you'll be.

Find a way to relax and ignore everything that makes you upset

hang in there. try to calmly convince him that he needs to let u sleep more. my man was pretty awesome when i hear about other men i feel bad but even with him helping me i still felt it was overwhelming...the lack of sleep and all. mayb if u could ask for help with people to take ur kids in the am...or pay. dunno. im just sending u a big hug. and random thoughts.