My twin sister got pregnant like a month after I found out I was pregnant, she blamed me for making her fertile, and some people believe she did it on purpose because she was jealous, she doesn't even take care of him now, and I have to take that over for her as a second mommy for him.

That's exactly how it was for me with my sister she always got what she wanted and all the attention was on her. I think with my sister is even tho we live so far away everyone was talking about us...on both sides of the family because her husband is also my husband's cousin lol.

@eskawho, thank you and I'm sorry to hear to you had to wait so long but so happy that it happened for you. It's nice to hear that I'm not being overly selfish right now. My husband said what you are saying that she just can't stand to not have the attention on her. He keeps saying it will be fine and that if my family doesn't make a big deal that his will and our little bean will be totally spoiled by his family.

I felt like that too...my sister is the baby of the family and honestly wants the attention for herself and already had a beautiful 2 year old but when I announced I was pregnant it was a huge deal because we tried for over 6 years and we thought it would never happen...so our families made a big deal even tho we live states away...right away she announced she was trying again to shift the focus. I got a little upset because I wanted to enjoy my pregnancy with everyone...it was finally my turn. she didn't end up pregnant...but I understand where you are coming from

@xolovingisaiah, I think I am more upset because I was the one that never wanted kids and she already has a little girl who is about 20 mons. I only changed my mind about 2 years ago when I met my now husband.

I felt like that too at first because my sis never wanted kids of her own then 3 months after I got pregnant she did. So they'll be 5 months apart. I'm happy for her and all I just hate that my son won't be in the spotlight for very long