I have this one friend who only calls for three reasons 1) to find out if I have any drama in my…

Agreed! I have a friend like that, always full of negativity and drama, love gossiping. Never ask how I'm doing or etc. When I want to have positive conversations she always cut me off and proceed to talking about negativity smh.

It's Nothing Wrong With That

@chantebrandon yes that's exactly how she is...I used to engage in the gossip but I'm just to a point now where I just don't want to anymore I'm changing as a person and it's like why hasn't she gotten there yet .

@mommyof10627 I just want her to get herself together lol

Exactly I feel I use to give in myself and realize that was all she was about. Plus becoming a mother I really had to remove all the negativity out of my life. It's gets overwhelming after a while.

Omg I had a few of those, it took me loosing my poor baby girl to wake up and realize that they aren't my "friend" I went months with out hearing from them...then when my daughter passed they were all over me and in my business....then after the funeral I haven't heard nothing else from them. They didn't check up in me or ask how I was doing...nothing....until.....they found out I was getting married then they wanted all up in that! So I told them straight up!!! "No your not invited" "you don't want nothing To do with me unless it's to be nosy" "matter a fact I'm done with you all together bc I don't need any more negativity in my life" and I left it at that!!!!! Sorry you gotta go through that drama, my best advice is to just ditch em. You don't need that. No one does.....

it's just hard because I've known her for 15 years and I prolly like one of her closest friends but I just can't take it anymore...like when we talk I feel like she is sucking the life out of me ....yday I could literally feel myself being drained as she talked. she was dying for me to give her so tea on my life and I'm just like nope everything is perfectly fine lol