@graciesmom, a peeking window would be an amazing idea lol

@graciesmom, yes I agree lol but I hope I'm jus so on edge waiting for my doctor to call with the day I get the know the sex and see my little one I will be at easy maybe I jus wanna make sure the baby is ok the wait is killing me

@keraj12, you'll start feeling baby soon, your right at the point where they make their first appearances (all babies are different) you'll start to notice some big changes in the next few weeks. Just try to stay calm. That's what I'm trying to do. I wish there was a peeky window so we could check on them :/ lol

That's how I feel right now at 19 weeks if it wasn't for the nausea and tiredness and the hunger I wouldn't even know I'm pregnant sometimes I don't feel pregnant because I don't have s bump and my stomach is not hard all the time sometimes it is sometimes it's not and no kicks yet I'm a ftm so everyone tells me it may take awhile and everybody's different I'm jus so worried about my baby that I freak out about it I don't feel like nothing is wrong physically I'm jus really worried and freaked out all the time now

Some facilities don't offer ultrasounds after 20 weeks but they should still check with a Doppler. You can always tell the Dr you're worried and get a second opinion.

@rainbowbaby2016, I've wanted to get a Doppler but can't afford one :/ my doctor says I won't be getting anymore ultrasounds either because it's not medically necessary. My last was 20 weeks. Just seems like so long to go without checking in on her :(

It's a normal fear, I think everyone has there own list of fears while pregnant, just keep track of the fetal movement... If something bothers you always call your doctor!! I lost my son at 31 weeks and all they could say it happens sometimes, cuz that's the honest truth, he was healthy just his heart stopped beating. So yes it is normal, but we can't live our life scared of what might happen we got to go with the flow and if something feels off its better to be safe then sorry.. Your momma instinct is already there you should trust is and don't question it 😊💗

I have had 4 miscarriages myself, and I see clients monthly who have lost their babies. It is a very scary and traumatic thing to go through. The best thing you can do is take one day at a time and talk to your baby. You can purchase a fetal doppler online for around $50 and use aloe vera gel to listen to your babys heartbeat. It helps some women feel less anxious.

I'm the same way. I could be sitting on the couch watching my son play, and the most awful scenarios just replay in my head. I have crazy dreams about something going wrong with this pregnancy, and my OB said its just my hormones, but it really scares me.. I just have to kinda shake my head, take a shower and get a grip. Or else I'll keep thinking about it!

ya you just have to remind yourself that worrying does not good at all. it doesn't help you in any way. I just remember the baby is in God's hands and whatever happens it will be ok. because he will take care of the baby either way