I hate when people automatically assume they are gonna be in the delivery room.
I just about want no one in there.
But I guess I'll put up with it because I can't break my sisters heart telling her she stresses me out to no fucking end so I dont want her there.
Give the nurse a list of people allowed in there ad she will tell your sister. Nurses loveeeee kicking people out that way you don't feel bad and they can tell you sister ther is a rule
i just want one thing to be done my way and I think its fair to want this to be my way. not selfish
@mamashane89, i made the decision to not use medication so i know I'll be grouchy and I know my sister (17 years old) is gonna roll her eyes and give me attitude and I'll say something mean to her and feel bad and I get so guilty feeling over everything. I tried talking to my mom (who is gonna be in the room) about it and she told me to quit being selfish and that shes not that bad (she is that bad but shes an angel to my mom)... I'm just so emotional and I dont know if i can handle the pain and them all at once. I'm thinking i just wont tell them when i go into labor...
Why not ask her to just be supportive and not try to control the situation while she is there with you and if she can't do that, then she will not be allowed in there with you? I have to do that with my soon to be ex husband and my mom. They both wanna be in the room but only 1 is allowed with a c-section so I chose mom of course and explained to my soon to be ex husband that it is more comfortable for me that way and that he had to accept it.
@_akgirl, but she will know its because i dont want her in there. itll hurt her feelings
you could tell the nurses and they can kick her out. they did that for me with my bfs parents.
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
FTM problems...
So I've made it pretty clear that I want to buy my daughter her fist Halloween costume. Her babysitter/nanny keeps saying she wanted to make her one. I told her yesterday that I wanted to find her something that my SO and I could dress up as a family. So I told her I am going to get it. She just text me and said 'not trying to step on your toes but I bought her two costumes'. She does this all the time. Anytime I want to do the "first" things with her she immediately does it. It...
I just absolutely love some women on here! Some woman wants to write on another women's post telling her she shouldn't be having sex at all in the beginning of pregnancy. I didn't know she was her doctor. Then she wants to tell me that the first trimester is only 1-9 weeks pregnant. And she lost her baby at 4 weeks pregnant due to sex. Like sweetie that's your period starting!
no more heartbeat. i wanted her so bad.
Madi is taking ounce after ounce I literally can not keep up. I want to give her rice cereal to keep her full😑
If you don't want her in there, tell the nurses and they will keep her out. Their main concern is for your well being because you are the one going through the hell of labor and you need to be able to stay focused and undistracted. So if you explain to the nurse the situation and what you would like to happen, they will be happy to help you make it happen.