so I'm about to be a first time mom. my boyfriend told me that his mom is gonna raise our child. wait hold on.. she is my baby, I carried her for nine months and I'm willing to accept help for his mom since this is my first child, but I think I'm capable of raising my child.
did any of you ladies as first time moms have this issue? if so how did you deal with it?
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I've already had to put my foot down with my father and him sticking his two sence in.. you have to make sure your SO is on your side though it will make it hard if he isn't then your the bad guy
Just because he think yall may be young dont mean your not able to raise a child. Im 26 and im still going to need help on how to take care of a child im a ftm and clueless but im the mother and I will raise her just need advice and guidance only. Imo I would talk to your boyfriend and Tell him my concerns but tell him you are going to raise yall child you dont want your responsibility to fall on some one else.
you have to put your foot down. I was 16 when I had my first and everyone thought I didn't know what I was doing. let me tell you if comes natural to mothers. well some but it will for you mama. tell her she can be a grandparent but not a second mom
No i mean wtf like he seriously said that and shes seriously believing its going to happen. Yor a ftm dont let them get to you. They come with of course stress and no instructions but we learn along the way. She should be there for advice, not trying to take over..