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Any other stepmoms? I have a situation/rant: BM (biomom) and my BF have a week on/week off schedule, exchanging every…

Any other stepmoms? I have a situation/rant:

BM (biomom) and my BF have a week on/week off schedule, exchanging every Sunday. The problem is BM is ALWAYS late and the last two times BM brought SD (stepdaughter, 2 years old) over she had a severe diaper rash and cried when I had to put diaper rash on her. BM said "yeah she must've pooped really bad in the middle of the night"...no, this was much worse. On top of that she always pawns off SD onto us on her weeks because she is either "too stressed" or "too busy" or SD is being sassy and BM can't "handle it". My BF doesn't want to "stir the pot" by telling her to get her shit together or we'll go for full custody. How would you handle it?

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islandftm

HoneyВ ожидании первенца

start keeping a journal of the incidents

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missing141user

missing141user

i would take pictures and screenshots first off but i would try and talk to her of course there gonna get offended but if its what needs to done for the sake of your Sd then do it girl.

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california12632

CaliВ ожидании первенца

Try nicely talking to her and if it continues then I would talk to a lawyer or someone especially if she is not taking care of them right

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