Saw this on my time line & it pissed me off...
C sections aren't planned; I'm sure every mommy who had one pretty much had no choice... I was in labor 14hrs and did not open no more than 3.5cm & my son wasn't dropping, I got the epidural due to the fact the Dr said it could help me dilate but still didn't... My water was broken at 7am and got tooken into for my c section at 10pm; I could not risk getting an infection!!
All I can say is I had the ability to care for a baby when I needed to be cared for myself!
This pisses me off. First c section I went to the hospital in pain and they told me at 24 weeks I was pregnant with twins. Not even me or my doctor knew. My son was weak and not getting blood or nutrients. I had gained a lot of Luis. After removing the fluid it sent me into labor. One came vaginal one was emergency c section because he was too weak to come on his own. This pregnancy I had to have a repeat c section early because they said my son was growing small and not to risk a stillbirth. The scar I have is a reminder of my beautiful sons in heaven who watch over their brother I have in my arms. I wouldn't change it for the world because I may not have my son now. I didn't plan it that way. God did. Recovery is ten times worse than a vaginal I'm sure and id take a scar over a loose vagina any day.