I think she means ruined because at a small age he's beginning to be spoiled, and as he gets older is going to get used to that treatment. Meaning ruined. I use that a lot and that's how I mean it

Does she mean spoiled or..? I don't really either lol what was the context. That's it?

message her back and say excuse me I don't see the humor in this explain

@gabbii, that's what I was thinking too! But still though, like what makes you say that ya know.

that sounds like a insult that she tried to disguise