I'm not at all comfortable with the thought of having my baby sleep in a crib so therefore she will sleep with me & her…

@kie123, lol forreal tho, i convinced myself about a weeks ago when i realized my 5 almost 6 year old dog slept in my bed for the firat 2 years of his life smh & hes a dog 😁 like hell no !! my baby will be in my bed for sure. ill just be careful and move her once im confortable about the whole thing.

@Rhonda.otero thank you so much I'm going to look into that

Oh ok I'm glad you are both light sleepers and that's on Pinterest and they used a crib and converted it.. It has full instructions and everything

@Rhonda.otero that is so cute 💜 I love it

@soontobehermommy, omg you want her in the bed with your for all the same exact reasons I do lol !!!!!! I'm 34 weeks so I'm getting kinda close & it's like fuck that my baby is sleeping with me lol

@kie123, i initially didnt want her to sleep in my bed because my aunt scared me and told me we could squish her literally to death. so i got a pack and play in my room and a co-sleeper but the closer i get to delivery the more i want her in my bed smh. at least the first month or so , it just feels safer . i have a king bed so id like to think theres plenty of room for her you know. plus i keep telling hubby, but winter is coming and i want her to be warm with us and have body heat lmaooo. i feel like she will be lonely all by herself whether its close enough or not. smh. cray cray 😥

@rhonda.otero, yeah me & hubby are both really light sleepers so I think we should be fine

@mommytoaz me & you both !

@cameronjamarsmommy2016, that's really nice 💜 I haven't seen one of those

I think most moms feel that way. Definitely go with your feeling.. Co sleepers are good but my ex rolled over on my daughter but I was waking up every 5 mins checking on her but I almost snapped on him and she wasn't affected so I don't trust the ones that go in the bed if your hubby is a heavy sleeper

lol right, plus ill be breastfeeding so its best for both of us lol @kie123

@mommytoaz, I couldn't agree more !!! Seriously like idc it's my child , not yours so don't worry about it ass holes ✋

@mrskel1 I have one that goes in the middle of your bed

me too 💚 & of course people talk their unnecessary shit like oh your just gonna spoil her blah blah blah like stfu its my child & so what if she's spoiled, what is spoiled? thats like saying you're tending to your child way much ! My Child, My Way. thats my motto ! @kie123

@alainalovesmommy, yeah I completely agree

@mommytoaz yes that way we can both get sleep because I'm a ftm so I'm already going to be paranoid

I would suggest getting a side sleeper that attaches right to your bed to reduce the chance of sids but they are still right there next to you.

it's way easier to keep a eye on them if they are by you

i feel the same way, its like i know my baby is safe right under me, other wise i wouldn't be able to sleep at night. @kie123