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godsgift92
godsgift92
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being a mom now , I see how I'm slowly losing friends . I feel so alone .. now I feel like it's just me and the baby . I…

being a mom now , I see how I'm slowly losing friends . I feel so alone .. now I feel like it's just me and the baby . I feel like certain friends don't understand . finding a baby sitter to celebrate anything or to go out isn't simple . I Don't want to be the mom who "goes out and leave the baby with anyone" . I only leave my baby with my mom or her father's mother . today I feel like I lost the last friend I had . because she feels like one I don't make an effort to drop everything for her and two because I can't celebrate her birthday because of my insufficient funds ..oh, and to add to that I couldn't find a baby sitter fast enough for her .. I feel so alone .. like why can't friends be understanding . I can't be that friend who drops everything anymore when you need me . I either have to bring my daughter or just be a call away . it's so frustrating .. I miss having a shoulder to lean on.. I work hard at work, I'm with my daughter all the time .. sorry that being a good mom. makes you think I'm a bad friend .. my priorities changed once I became a mother .

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coraanne

CoraМама сына (4 года), беременна (37 нед.)

A REAL friend is understanding. They will all start having babies soon and then they'll come back around.... and hopefully apologize to you. I got pregnant with my first at 21 had her at 22 and lost all my "friends" I'm 26 now and they're realizing now with their own childern, how hard it really is. Hang in there mama! Maybe find a local play date group where you can meet fellow mamas?

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del_1519101990_caseysmommy

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YUPP Just bc u cnt drink anymore thy want nothn to do with me. ITs rlly sad bc i thought we were rlly close. but ig they were just party friends. thats okay tho bc soon ill have my baby .fuck em.every tho it hurts so damn bad😢@godsgift92

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godsgift92

godsgift92Мама дочки-младенца

it hurts .. I was in the same boat being pregnant. they rather go out and party and not accommodate plans for you because you're pregnant . @caseysmommy

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del_1519101990_caseysmommy

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i feel ya😢 i lost every single one of my friends .i ltterly have 0 friends now and havnt even had my baby yet.

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