I'm 34 weeks and its like everywhere I go everyone always think I'm like 24 weeks or so they always say "you're so small" and then yesterday some chick was like "omg you're due next month?" everyone always say I'm small😕!!!! like wtf I know I don't look that small for it to be hard to believe like it kinda make me think if my baby is okay or something..like I be thinking am I supposed to be big? like damn how big do society want me to be!!??? when I go to the drs they don't say nothing about my size ...my Dr dont question it!!
@aballofemotions, foreals I do t think they know how the pregnant females feel until they get pregnant and hear that crap all the time
I'm the same way I don't think people understand how annoying it is
#cankles not #crankles lol
@ms.sadelove, yeah I use to be quiet and shy and scared to say stuff but when I married my hubby then he don't hold nothing back and he got me out of my shell and now I think sometimes he wishes I'd shut my mouth, lol!!! Dec can't get here soon enough for me. I feel so miserable most days and I have really bad cankles. #cranklesarereal
@mommyleah87, I seen ur due a month after me I'm November 14th
hahahahahah thats pretty funny if i had the balls to go crazy and say something back i would lol i just smile and keep walking...but when im walking away i be saying a whole bunch of crap in my head lol @mommyleah87
@ms.sadelove, yeah I probably should smile walk away and keep my mouth shut but, ive heard it too much and it bothers me so I always have something to say. my hubby just laughs at me and says I'm a crazy pregnant hormonal lady. 😂
@mommyleah87, yea I was told after ur first you get bigger with your other pregnancies ....its my first....I don't say anything when people tell me stuff I just smile and keep it pushing
@kaygrig, I TOTALLY agree and you're right they do t even say congratulations haha ..well at least I'm okay with myself because if I wasn't I would be going crazy right about now with everyone remarks
I will be 30 wks tomorrow and people be asking me if I have more then one in there or you look like ur about to pop, nope there's only one and I'm due in Dec not today. I hate when people say stuff like that to me but I'm a bit oof a B***h and I let them know that,lol!!! this is my forth pregnancy and they say u get bigger with each one, idk!!!
People just need to shut up and leave us alone lol. Say congrats or something but why comment on our size? As long as dr says we are fine no worries. 😊
@kaygrig, lol well idk how I would feel if I was being told I was big..but then hearing that I look small makes me feel some type of way ....when I go to the drs I measure either a Lil ahead or on point ...and like I haven't change my face not swollen my feet not swollen ..nothing...everyone just say the only difference is your belly....this older lady was like you carrying your baby too damn good she's like what's your secret....maybe because its my first and I was already a small person before I got pregnant idk
Then on the other hand I have people asking me. " you sure it's only one" " oh man by the end you are going to be huge" 😑
@meganeileen6, it just kinda like make me feel some type of way like damn am I supposed be be huge or something like not a week go by to where I dont hear "you're small" I just don't u derstand like hell I don't feel small at least the way I be breathing and tossing and turning at night😂😂😂
i was the same way! europeans on the other hand thought i was huge! this last month I've gotten a lot bigger!

8 months & everybody saying I'm small or big I think I'm small 😂
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
what makes a big baby big? like everyone saying my baby so big.. lol he was born 7lbs 14oz.. && according to my Dr appt yesterday he lost weight. he is 7lbs 6oz.. I thought average baby size was 6 to 8lbs... so is 7lbs big or something? lol I'm not offended but I don't think he so big how everyone talking but idk
Racial nickname
I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
right... its to the point now when people comment on how small I am I have to force a smile and say I know when I really wanna curse them out