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Jessica Coffman
Jessica Coffman
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (26 нед.)

I don't feel attached to my pregnancy at all. No one asks or talks about it, I'm 25 weeks and family hasn't even asked…

I don't feel attached to my pregnancy at all. No one asks or talks about it, I'm 25 weeks and family hasn't even asked what I'm having. It's like this baby doesn't even exist. My kids dad doesn't even know how far along I am (and we live together). No one rubs my belly. I haven't bought one thing for this baby. I feel so terrible about being unattached. Idk what to do. 💔

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mommyoftwoangels

PriscillaВ ожидании первенца

I don't feel attached to the pregnancy either but it truly helps to go shopping and start getting ready for baby also if you want to be attached there is attachment activities you can do the three on time of my head are playing tag that's when you poke your stomach then baby moves and you poke again, playing music and reading to baby oh also talking to baby can help. You could talk you the baby's father on a daily bases about baby

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yadira

YadiraМама дочки (3 года), беременна (21 нед.)

i dont feel attached to my babies i even forget i am pregnant because no one knows and im not trying to make anyone know either...even though i do remember i am pregnant because im always sleepy and feel lazy...the baby daddy never asks npr does he suggest buying anything...i dont want to buy anything yet until maybe close to labor since i am barely 17 weeks :) ... also this was not a planned pregnancy...i did not feel attached to my daughter either until she was born.

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jabarismommy

Nita 👋Мама сына-младенца

Awww 😕 maybe you should start shopping for little things the baby can wear or start setting up the nursery .. Maybe that will help you get closer.

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chelsea0820

chelseaМама сына-младенца

I didn't either but I realized it when he was born that he was the best thing in my life

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kparis

KaylaВ ожидании первенца

A lot of people don't feel attached until they actually have the baby, especially if it wasn't a planned pregnancy, that's how my mom was with me, and she turned out to be an amazing mom! Hang in there girl

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