Just got this message from my baby daddy: i fucking hate u so much u stuck around just long enough to make me think we…

@jdrose, God only knows how much I love that man. Him and my baby are my world. I'm so sad this had to happen.

it's a cry for help I don't believe he really hates you

@mila05052016, I can only hope🙏🏻thank you thank you 💙

@marce88, yeah, he has ptsd but never got help. I hope he does before the baby is here.

@rileyandhuntersmommy, thank you 💙

please stay strong sometimes tough love is what it takes. we're here for you😚

@to leyandhuntersmommy, 💙 thank you

@onemoretime, thank you 💙🙏🏻

Sounds like PTSD, he needs to get some help I went through a similar situation not involving kids or being pregnant but the constant depression and ups and downs. I eventually had to walk away. Best wishes to you!

I have no doubt it will be hard. If you ever need someone to talk you out if caving; I'm here for you!

@mila05052016, yeah I am gonna try my best to just ignore what he says. But when he crys I cannot stand it. 😞 and I have a feeling he will. And I pray to God that doesn't make me go back. It's best to ignore all his messages.

Aww you need to do what's right for you and your son .keep strong and keep your head up

@onemoretime, I just wish things happened differently. It's gonna be so hard staying at my moms verses going back home. But my mind is set I just hope his words don't make me go back. I will Pray. It's gonna be hard for me to tell him no.

wow hate? he must have been high or something because he is now blaming Everyone else for his attitude. and please don't wait for him to get his shit straight. if he is not willing to get help for his baby then ......think about your options.

Ugh. I know. No one can tell you what to do. It's easier said than done, but you really need to give it some time. If you go right back; he will see no reason to make the changes he needs to make. You will still be dealing with the nonsense when your baby is born.

It's only going to work for a week if I went home. I can't keep going through that cycle.

@onemoretime, he won't go to Counsoling. Maybe his mom. I just really don't know what to do. It's a cycle. And expecting us to get back together and he's going to lure me in, he's going to make me feel bad and he's gonna cry and I am gonna end up home dealing with all the bull. I can't do it anymore. I shouldn't even respond to his messages. But you know.. I do love him

Stay strong @hayhayes1 . He clearly has some big issues. You are doing the right thing by stepping away. Father of your kid or not; he is not a person you need in your daily life. Does he have any family that can maybe push him to get help?

tough to find the "right" words... 😞

Well this was my response: which I shouldn't of responded this early in the morning because my words won't be right completely ::::Once you find your ways I do want to work it out. But right now you need to do you. Apparently weed and alcohol is more important than a family. its your priorities. I have no other choice but to wait on you to get your life together. Because you are the father of my kid, and I do love you. I'm sorry you hate me. @babycasey

wow, that's harsh. I'm sorry honey. I pray he will see things differently one day. hate is such a strong hurtful word. 😞 don't let it consume you, just try and do the best you can for you and baby.