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Kristi Davis
nathanswifey7
Kristi Davis·Мама дочки (9 лет)
Well, my blood presuure is probably just now dropping... My husband and I agreed that we won't be telling anyone when I go into labor, just after Bella is born, so there's not a lot of hectic-ness. Well, I posted that on fb so all of my friends and family wouldn't be upset that day and they'd have a heads up and it apparently pissed someone off. My husbands ex's family means a lot to him. They're basically family to him even though they broke up. Well, his ex's sister commented and said "no I wanna know" (she's 16 & I had already made it clear that not even the grandparents would know until afterward)... Well she goes on to say that shell just find out from my husband and she's more important than everyone else and that she didn't care what I said and I could just face it that I didn't matter... I stayed as calm and nice as possible and told her that they would find out when family was notified and she continued to say "Nathan (my husband) will tell me so f you"... Am I wrong for wanting her to have nothing to do with my baby at all?? like she told me that what I want doesn't matter, called me multiple names, and numerous other things (my post was literally blown all to hell)... How would you react? I called my husband and told him to go read the status and the comments because he was on the bus on the way home from work and he called back very upset with her, but idk how to personally handle it because I'm 18, she's 16, they're not really related, and she tries to put herself in a higher position than his family... I really just want to say that he needs to set her straight or tell her not to contact us again but I know how much they mean to him and I don't want to put him in that situation. Am I wrong for this?
26.09.2015
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momma588
liz·Многодетная мама (5 детей)
well good luck momma. I'm here if you need anything. @nathanswifey7
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jjbutton
Jessica·Мама сына (9 лет)
It sounds like she needs a lot of maturing- however, she needs to respect YOU and your husband. As long as you and your husband agree not to tell anyone, his ex-sister will find out when the rest do. You guys have control over that and it's your birth. Don't let anyone badger you into something you don't want. Good luck!
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nathanswifey7
Kristi Davis·Мама дочки (9 лет)
I made him get on fb and read it and he's supposed to call and talk to them tonight when he gets home from work... I told him that I tried to say everything nicely and he said he saw that that he'd deal with it... I guess well see.... @momma588
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momma588
liz·Многодетная мама (5 детей)
your husband needs to realize how much this means too you. and how it's affecting you. if he loves you and cares about you and your needs. he will tell her to back off. she has NO say in what happens. she see.a jealous and controlling. and you need to get rid of those types of vibes. otherwise your gonna be stressed 24/7. and you won't hear the end of it. she's gonna be e to take things for what they are. and deal with it. tell her to put her grown panties on and back off. you may have to block her on fb. and tell your husband to not respond to her text messages. that's if she has his number. @nathanswifey7
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tater4414
Eternity·Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)
no you are not wrong at all!!!! she needs to be put in her place to be honest even though it might strain relationships
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nathanswifey7
Kristi Davis·Мама дочки (9 лет)
it wouldn't be as big of a deal if my husband really didn't treat her like she was more important... when I talk to him about the things she says and does he just tells her not to do it so he doesn't have to listen to me bitch... Like she's only 2 years younger than me... And I know for a fact that she liked him when he was with her sister and with that being the case, I seriously just wanna tell them to go kiss and make up and stay out of mine and Bellas life but its not his fault and I have to keep telling myself that he didn't even know she was saying all of it until I called him :/ @momma588
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missing137user
missing137user·Мама двоих (9 лет, 18 лет)
You are not wrong at all! It's is your baby and she needs to respect your guys' wishes!!
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momma588
liz·Многодетная мама (5 детей)
no you have every right to say and do what you want. especially bc it's your child. no got rid of fb bc of this reason. there's always drama. when there should be more understanding. some people just don't get it. it's your life. don't take to heart what she has said to you. again she's 16. and probably thinks she knows everything. DONT even stress girly.
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