I know my husband is mad at me because I pulled a knife on him.. He said he needs time .. But it…

Did he do anything bad to you?

I mean I think it depends on what led you to pull out the knife every situation & man is different but it sounds like he's not done

@faithfulness88, no, when I was hitting him he grabbed me and just held me but since I kept fighting him off we fell to the ground .. That's it @athenas_mommy cops call it kidnapping cause he took my phone so I couldn't keep communications with my family, it was the dumbest fight we have had . But since I did the whole knife thing it got way more serious ..

I don't think he wants you out his life but just be careful. Try not to do that again for your own good. I know sometimes we can't control our anger but try your best mama.

@flower_princess,

I told you hun.don't force it. it'll push him away.he's not done with you but give him time.i told you he would be upset.that's one of the things you guys have to cover after u give him time.@flower_princess,

He might just be shocked by everything & need time to process what happened

@faithfulness88, I was scared myself when I pulled the knife on him I was seriously stupid to think I would make it better by pulling it out .

@flower_princess, We all make mistakes and we learn from it and EVERYONE deserves a second chance.

@momtonoasophia, it's killing me 😭 and it's hard but I really am going to give him time because I feel like that's what he needs but my phone doesn't distract me from thinking about him .. I just can't get him out of my head @athenas_mommy I'm trying my hardest to give him space and time .. He told me he needed time alone .. Does that mean he doesn't want me anymore ?

@faithfulness88, let's hope he gives me that second chance

Just give him time honey. Sometimes we all need a little break. Good luck and wish you the best., @flower_princess

I know.I was the same. and it's harder with a child involved but I literally had to delete him and just let him text me first.when that didn't work cause I memorized his number I blocked him but my phone let me check spam messages so I would look at those every couple hours to see if he text. it helped a lot and since he missed my morning texts he eventually started messaging me @flower_princess

@momtonoasophia, I want to just give him the time to talk about it .. And I am I just need a way of distraction

This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship and for your own good, his, and your babies I don't think you two should be together. It sounds toxic.

@bria.k, we've never fought like that first time ever . We are more than a loving couple . We let each other know we love each other every night .

I understand that but once it gets to that point it goes down hill. Like a line that can't be crossed.. Once it is, the boundary is gone and things will never be the same. It's so much easier to go too far after you've done it once.

@bria.k, I apologized to him because I never meant any harm and he knows it .