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Мама сына (3 года)

just lost it with hubby his rota shiws him only 1 rota day off a week - hes entitled to 2 and doesnt get paid more for…

just lost it with hubby

his rota shiws him only 1 rota day off a week - hes entitled to 2 and doesnt get paid more for dropping one for any reason....what reason is there ffs...im at hone running his household, educating our child, keeping things in order, preparing for baby gathering bits and peices....and he can just casually see us 1 day a week..actually takes the fucking piss so i sent an arsey message with the list of things he has said he will do for me and told him i want them done by mid october.

grrrŕ

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Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Your allowed, all part and parcel.

123tommyanddorismew

layla mew

Мама сына (3 года)

i think im being irrational..haha

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Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

🙈🙈🙈

123tommyanddorismew

layla mew

Мама сына (3 года)

im gonna kill him 😡

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Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

I'm just too tired for arguing today 😂😂😂 first night off after 4 in and all I want to do is sleeeeeep x

123tommyanddorismew

layla mew

Мама сына (3 года)

yes this is where i am...and im gkad ive nipped it now (hopefully)

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Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

@123tommyanddorismew, my partners the same, just agrees to anything work or anybody else says and I sometimes feel like me and the boys are just left to it. Granted I'm only 16 weeks pregnant but I have a 4 & 5 year old, work 48 hours of nightshift a week and have everything else like schools runs and house work. It truly infuriates me sometimes. It's like work and running around after his idiot mother come first. Don't get me wrong he does work bloody hard and me and my boys don't want for anything but quality time cannot be replaced by material goods. I can see us coming to blows over this very soon. x

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.