Worst day ever, come to find out the father of my child was talking to another girl behind my back telling her that we wasn't together and the only thing we had together was a baby. Like he is living with me and all... I suffer from bad depression and anxiety and I stopped taking my meds when I found out I was pregnant. And now I'm freaking out, I'm hurt, I'm embarrassed and I don't know what to do.
don't help at all .. smh.. that's why I'm ready to have this baby to be tough again fr lol
@isa238375, I told him we would talk more when he got home, because I just needed to think about everything. I just hate things not being simple
@Ryanj15, girl right, it's like I want to be better for my baby but hormones don't help...
@Ilovebabyjosiah, he is a guy and doesn't realize how hurtful the shit he does affects me.
And tell him... Well then you technically don't live w me... Ask him to move...
Don't be embarrassed ... It's not your fault.. I know it's very hard.. I have a hard situation of my own... But think about yourself and your beautiful baby on the way and make decisions for him/her and you not for your BD anymore.... They are men and have one track minds... It's not your fault.... It's his!!! And his loss!! Keep your head up and keep going!!! Don't get down or atleast try real hard not to.
fr. I hate I'm pregnant when its happening because its like my emotions are getting the best of me.
I'm sorry but don't waste your time on someone who isn't worth it or deserves it . I don't get how he could hurt you like that
Well I think you just need to focus on your baby more & one day he's gonna want his family when it's too late
@ryanj15 it sucks because it makes you feel like everything you're doing isn't going enough... @lilymama
I went through the same thing. Sadly some of these "men" aint shit
this asshole texted a girl saying he miss her has been seeing her calling her kids his stepkids and he wish they stayed together. when we live together.
@Ilovebabyjosiah, I did and he said well technically we aren't together, sometimes I want to try and sometimes I don't know.
I really appreciate that. I need it I think. @_akgirl
It happens girl . Calm down I know you don't want anything happening to the baby . Go for a walk . Maybe you should talk to him . Ask him why the fuck he's suck a stupid ass
Not really, my mom sleeps all day because she works night shift and my sister works today.. @_akgirl
we are going thru pretty much the samething. I'm here to talk and try to help you as well as try to help myself.
@ilovebabyjosiah, it is super hard, and I'm trying to calm down but as soon as I do I start to breakdown again. Like it's sad to think someone was this great person and found he is nothing but a liar
oh girl I'm sorry 😞 guys can be such dicks and it's so not fair. especially since you're pregnant with his child. do you have a friend or family member you can spend the day with?
That must be hard & you know what fuck that . You and your baby deserve better . Just please stay calm even though I know it's hard . Baby can feel what mommy feels . You don't want to stress your baby over a dumb mf. Kick that stupid ass out your house .
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Opinions! I’m pregnant with my ex boyfriends third child it is our second together. Our daughter is 3, we split up a week before I found out I was pregnant. He doesn’t want to fix things. And I’ve been trying to sorta ask him to come home but found out some news that completely broke my heart. I sorta started to talk to someone that doesn’t live in my state but works around my area sometimes.. we spent some time together while he was here and he will be back in 3 weeks.. am I doing something wro...
Keep the baby or Abortion.......
I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in ab...
t- 2 days
Until we find out what iron baby is. Decided to do an early scan since my husband won't be at the next ultrasound, and my son won't be at our level 2 scan...I wanted us all together.
Y'all I just found out my baby daddy , is having a whole other baby which I'm not tripping but really i am lol because the bastard got her pregnant WHILE we were together !! Yo .. I'm pissed ..
Hang in there girl.. It will only get more complicated when a little one is here... But focus on you and that baby... That is what is important... Keep that beautiful head up!