So I don't get how any parent could leave their baby for days on end, but a dad is a little bit more…

I knew a girl who left the state to get a boob job when her kid was 6 weeks old and went back to modeling and working as a go go dancer at night. Didn't want to take her kid to get a brain surgery & wanted to keep living life like she didn't have a kid. I don't understand. My son is 4 years old and I've had one 4 day vacation away from him. The only other long time I had away from him was 2 days while my best friends mom was in the hospital dying. I don't understand how moms can leave their kids constantly. I can say as my son gets older and more self sufficient it's easier to leave him with someone, but when they're not very old and they've already spent lots of time with family or friends for pleasure- as opposed to work, I just don't get it.

Moms are like that. I see a lot of moms on my fb going out and partying makes me so mad like if you still want to do that then don't have a kid ! Keep your dam legs closed or wrap that willy 😡 now your kid doesn't have a mommy

@kimberlyyyy, that's how I feel! Even when my boyfriend talks about future vacations where his mom would "happily watch our baby" it makes me nervous thinking about it even now and I haven't even had him yet haha I just can't imagine being ok leaving him while he's so young and dependent on mommy you know? The women that can do that must just have very different minds than us cuz I don't get it!

@aj1115, I was actually on fb tonight and saw she was still doing the same thing she did alll summer long.. She has no pictures of her son, just pictures of her drunk and drugged up at music festivals. It's just sad for the baby :( he doesn't know why his mom left him.

Girl I had a friend ask me to babysit her THREE DAY OLD son while she went out and partied. And she had just had a csection!!!! Some girls are just fucking ridiculous and will never grow up. My son is 1.5, my husband and I have probably went out on a total of 8-10 dates since he was born, and I've been out by myself like three times and it's usually to target! 😂😂 lmao. Some girls just don't know when to grow up and be mamas. But God bless the ones who do, like us. 😊😊 We just need to pray for them!

I'm sorry to say but there are moms out there that think their lives aren't going to change when they have a kid. But the reality is that life does change and they just really need to grow up and be with their child I knew with all my kids I never left them for more then a few hours and that was either with their dad or my mother.

@queendavis, 3 days!! Now that is straight up crazy! I guess it's a good thing she trusts you so much haha I feel like no matter how much I trust someone though, even my own mother, I would still feel weird leaving my baby at 3 days. Like my motherly instinct would kick in and I wouldn't even be able to have a good time going out I would just want to be back with my baby in my arms. Idk what it is... I wouldn't physically be able to do it. These moms blow my mind

At 3 days old I took my son back to the hospital because he wasn't eating. I didn't exist as a person. I don't know what happened in the news July 13, 2011, I don't know what concerts were going on in my area.. How do you think of partying when your kid is fresh out of the package?! I was bleeding, I was sore as hell, I was exhausted... How can someone go out that soon? I went out when my son was 3 1/2 months old because it was my first legal Halloween party I could attend and I went home early because I missed my son. I don't get it. @queendavis @aboutellesbabe