So my daughters father and I aren't together. I'm talking to my old boyfriend * first love * and he smokes weed. I have no problem with it just I would rather him not do it. now I heard that my daughters father is starting to smoke again to like ?! Why you told me you wouldn't for our daughter . I just don't like the way they both act when they're high. Ugh I don't want to tell my first love to stop but I do ... Help me