Okay, no judgement please. Here is my story.
My ex boyfriend and I had tried for a baby for 3 out of the 4 years we were together. I went to 3 different doctors where each one told me I would never conceive due to my PCOS. Well, we ended up breaking up, clearly, because I couldn't give him the family he wanted. He no longer wanted me. Well, a month after we split, I had started seeing a friend I had known for two years prior. We weren't dating but having unprotected sex. I thought it would be fine since I "couldn't get pregnant." Well, after a few weeks we just randomly stopped talking and I was depressed and had no care in the world for anything. I got into drugs and alcohol really bad. Well, about a month after I got into it, I realized I was going no where in life while I was doing this. So I started seeing a new doctor and we were going to schedule surgery for my cysts. Well, December 4th 2014 was the ultrasound. I went in and in the process of the ultrasound my doctor looked at me and said "Katelyn, I think you may be pregnant." you couldn't believe my shock. He showed me what we believed to be a fetal sac and we were going to do a urine test to see. Five minutes after I pissed in the cup, the nurse came in with the doctor and confirmed that I was indeed pregnant. I cried. I didn't know what to think or how to handle it. I was scared. I talked to my mom, asked for advise. I didn't have my GED or a reliable car or a job. I had been jumping from house to house because my stepdad didn't want me living with them. Well, I didnt know if I wanted to keep my baby. He was a miracle by far but my life was a complete mess. My mom told me to keep my baby that she would help me through this. She would be by my side. So my mom and stepdad agreed to let me move back in. I was thankful. I talked to my grandma, I wanted to get my GED before the baby's arrival so she lent me the 140 dollars to take the test. Thankfully I passed all of em!! The father of my child didn't find out I was pregnant til I was 4 months along. At five months pregnant we decided to start dating. I had known him for almost three years at that point. I was so happy. Now that my son is here, we are still together and soon going to be house hunting for our little family, we want another baby in the future. Thing is, we don't know his hard its going to be for me to get pregnant again and we were wondering how long other families waited to start trying for another one! We plan to get married one day and we both want another baby but we were wondering when it was okay to start trying. I had a csection and I'm not sure if that matters but the whole point to the back story was because I had a really hard time getting pregnant and when I did it was so unexpected. Just want opinions! Again no judgement please!!